There’s so much talk on here about people loosing their soul and spiritual side and that this world is hell and the ‘normal’ ones are all stupid if they don’t see the truth. Well let me tell you that I am not stupid, have any of you dared to stop for one second and just realize that this is all there is? Â This life is amazing, there is so much opportunity out there. I came from an average family upbringing and I have climbed the corporate ladder and I am not afraid to say that I have had to fight tooth and nail to get there, which means that I have not acted in a ‘godly fashion. I took no prisoners. I am living proof that there is no god! I have never been punished or cursed with these problems that you’re all experiencing on here. Stop thinking about the stars and about god! We are a species, and not a ‘godly creation’ this is where you are all going wrong I promise you! You all need to drop the god act and start seeing the world for what it is. Yes it is about money, but money is not about ‘evil’ it can be used for many purposes – money makes the world go round. A part of evolution is learning about our feelings so that means we’re changing, and maybe that doesn’t involve us treating others no how ‘they want’ to be treated but the ultimate goal is to grow yourself, you can’t make others grow. Caring about others is pointless and makes you weak. It’s all about you. If you are going round trying to find any deep meaning and love in this world, you’re playing a loosing game cause there IS NONE. We have moved on from all that bull! That bull never brought us what we have today!
If I hadn’t done the things I have done in life I would not have the house of my dreams and all the gadgets that I can desire. I am NEVER bored, there is so much fun to be had. You don’t even really need to work that hard, you just have to drop the pointless ‘god act’ and ‘searching for you soul’ Â cause none of that exists. Believe me. I have never been depressed, what could there be to be depressed about?Â
Part of evolution will inevitably be to destroy the weak and I’m sorry to tell you but the way all you guys are talking just SCREAMS that you are WEAK. I am not preaching here I am trying to help you. Come on guys you need to be a lot more ruthless and stop caring about things that are not of your concern, and don’t even exist. The only thing that exists is outside your front door, go take what’s yours!!
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Forgive me but your posts just stinks of everything that is wrong with society
Wrong? What is wrong? There’s nothing wrong with my world, it’s you guys that have the problem!
Listen, I’m don’t want to get involved in a dispute, I only came on here to offer some advice. But honestly, you guys have got this world all wrong and I would hate to see you all dead through weakness. Everything in the world is exactly how it should be, the human is evolving. There is no ‘good & evil’, all you have to do is watch children play together and you will see that they soon start snatching each others toys and smacking each other in the faces HARD, this isn’t something that we learn as we get older. We just learn to be more clever with it, it’s survival of the fittest! If you just stop looking for something that isn’t there you might actually enjoy the party!!
And as for rape and murder and all that, that has ALWAYS been a part of our nature, it’s not ‘evil’ – women are like temptresses and men are just drawn in and men being men take what they want, but women like that really – like going back to cavemen days. Before you jump on me, I am NOT condoning rape I am saying just look at how women have evolved – they are now the sex objects that they were intended to be and no-one is forcing them to do that, they are more than willing! Just turn on your TV! There is no-one, certainly no ‘devil’ forcing anyone to do anything. It’s US, it’s how humans are, we are evolving that’s all.
Which means there is nothing wrong, nothing evil with suicide either. Your reasoning is really flawed.
“I would hate to see you all dead through weakness”: and yet you admit that the laws of nature are on the side of the strong ones!
Why can’t you just accept that some people are strong, and some are weak, and some are far too weak to keep living in this tough world?
And why do you seem to think that weaker people would feel more happy from reading your truths which they have realised since long? It is as if you would say: “listen guys, 2+2 is really 4. Now be happy!”
You are strong, and happy, and successful, and I congratulate you to that. But you seem to feel disturbed by the very existence of weak people! Why do you bother to come to this site, which is especially made for such persons?
You, not we, seems to have a serious problem …
You are a despicable and disgusting person. A person who is so consumed by greed and materialism that you celebrate the terrible things you have done to attain your socioeconomic position and encourage others to do the same. You think that people on here with serious emotional and mental problems can change their lives with money and possessions. You even proclaim to others to stop caring about anyone but themselves!
Beyond these obvious flaws I can tell that I am wasting my time because you are the type of close minded individual who thinks that they are right no matter what. That’s why you are so confused by people’s posts on here. You do not understand them because you refuse to see any other logic or line of thought different from your own.
I’m glad you are so simple minded and brainwashed by American society that your big house and “all the gadgets you can desire” make you happy. I’m glad that you feel it necessary to brag about these things and insult people who are in real pain and struggling with major issues by calling them weak. Do you know why I am glad for these things? Because you are the poster child of a topic that has been discussed in great detail on this site as of late. Many of us here do not want to end our lives because we are depressed, weak, or because we don’t have big homes and an executive career. Instead, we want out because the society we live in is filled with pitiful close minded materialistic parasites like yourself that have destroyed our culture and world.
I want to live in a world where people care about one another and help their fellow man, a world where selflessness and helping others is a virtue. I want to live in a world where everyone has only the things that they need to live simply and peacefully, and one where people are happy and fulfilled by this minimum level of material possessions instead of bombarded with propaganda that they constantly need more. In short, I want to live in a world completely opposite from the one you have so eagerly sold your dignity and soul to become a part of. Kudos dickhead, please drive your Porsche SUV into a brick wall.
I am simply at a loss you pathetic fuck, please never come here again.
You are a sick person! I was raped by my stepfather! Are you going to go congradulate him on a job well done you sick fuck?! Do you know what its like to lose your virginity to a 300 pound black guy?!! My mother didnt even give a shit and I have no friends to support me whatsoever because they think im just being dramatic or selfish for wanting to end my life! you want to call me weak and pathetic yet?! You are a self centered spoiled little brat who only cares about money and the luxury of things you can buy with it!!!
Most people in this world aren’t as fortunate as you are. I know plenty of great people who worked extremely hard and also “climbed the corporate ladder” but never succeeded. Every person’s life is different and just because you succeeded, it does not mean life is amazing for others. Every person perceives his or her own problems in different ways. Maybe some struggle or painful event flies over one person’s head after a few days whereas it may stick with another person for life.
Sure, I can agree money can definitely help solve some problems, but I do not believe it should ever be the most important part of any person’s life. I mean if money really does make you happy, sure go for it. But even the richest people can feel empty inside.
As human beings, we should be helping each other. Yes, there are many people out there who will simply use you for their own means. But, that doesn’t mean you should just care about yourself. The above poster pretty much summed up what I wanted to say about selflessness.
Although your original post did sound condescending, I’m going to assume your original intention wasn’t to insult others. If this is the case, I can only say that if people really could get out of depression that easily, we would have a lot fewer people visiting sites like this. It just isn’t that easy and it’s really hard to feel or understand unless you’ve either been through it or are still going through it.
_ said it very well.
People like you, the close-minded ones, are the reasons why our current society is getting worse & worse.
I am sad, sad because ironically, despite all the materialistic wealth and all that people like you might have been so ‘successful’ at getting, you can’t see past the fake-ness & the truth of it’s all just one big illusions that have entrapped so many people to live like a rats in a maze, losing their true essence, the true purpose of their existence.
Of course you would deny all of this, and most probably I can already guess, you will probably just scoff at all these posts, and even viewed us as “pathetic losers”.
I mean how can you not scoff at all the posts in this website, since you are so close-minded and feels that you are right because “everybody surrounding you also do the same thing”, let alone you are trying to genuinely, sincerely *UNDERSTAND* what these people in this website are/have been experiencing in their lives!
Perhaps for people like you, the phrase “ignorance is bliss” sums up your life, but not for us. Most of us are longing for the TRUTH, and have realized, and have had enough of all the lies, the BS craps that made us so sick and thus, feel depressed. and keep searching & searching for what’s really the Truth, about this humanity, mankind and this world, in a whole.
Sure, it’s probably the ‘price’ we have to pay for seeking these Truths,
but I’m very sure most of us (in this website) would gladly choose this ‘tough path’ than living our entire life in the lies.
Okay, first of all there is no need to attack and insult me just because I love a world that you hate, what is the point of that?
My intention was not to offend anyone, I only came on because I am someone full of love of life myself and you all seemed to be searching for this so I thought I would put my point across to see if anyone would be able to take anything from that. There is no need to get nasty with me.
Whatever that CutXcry is going on about has nothing to do with me! She seriously needs some medication even her name is appalling. Nasty cow.
But to the rest of you, I am not a villain because I hate life, that’s ABSURD! Listen to yourselves guys, you all compare yourself to anyone that’s happy in this world and you slag them off, even if it’s a member of your own family!!! Listen to yourselves. It seems to me that you are all deeply jealous of anyone that loves life.
For one: Look around when you go out, you are all outnumbered by a countless amount by the ones who are loving (or at least mostly loving) this world. You guys are the minority so it’s not only insulting, but also futile to say that you guys are ‘heightened’ beings because you are bipolar or have a chemical imbalance – if you you were born with with a hole in your heart would you say that was ‘special’ in some way or you allow doctors to fix it?
I read the latest post on here by someone called fireflies and he tried to kill himself because of an ex relationship and a house! How spiritually enlightened it that!? He even talks of finding his god and all that but he contradicts himself throughout. he is OBSESSED ABOUT MONEY. I contest that he is very deluded about life, not me! I wake up every morning ready and happy to embrace my day! I wouldn’t dream of ending this exciting life.
I don’t care how you all gloss it up guys, it is the weak ones who will suffer in this world. Please believe me that I do not want to insult you, I am trying to get you to see the truth, which is what you are looking for isn’t it? Why must you insist that you all know the truth and the ones who are busy enjoying life don’t?? There are many more of us than there are of you so how come we’re ALL WRONG and the minority is right? Smacks of arrogance to me.
For two: We were born with an ego, that ego is a part of evolution and it is what has created all our technology and even scientific facts about the world so that we can advance as much as possible (our ONLY purpose). Why would this earth have coal, oil, gold and pearls imbedded into it?? There’s nothing spiritual about all that. You think you guys don’t have an ego and aren’t ruled by it? If so you are totally deluded beyond comprehension. Your site here is just another bunch of egotistical monsters all fighting to find this illusive truth instead of accepting what IS the truth and joining in with the rest of us. Heaven forbid you should be like everyone else! You’re all far too superior for that! Truth is, you just wanna take from this world and not give back, and you are too scared of failure to join the party. Just for once in your lives admit the truth, that if you commit suicide, you are doing it because you have failed, that’s all, I can respect that and I too would probably kill myself if I was stuck in a dead end job in a high rise flat with no car and cheap shoes.
Don’t worry, I wont be coming back on here, it’s full of the most egotistical people I have ever come across, but you won’t go out and face the REAL world cause you know you’re not good enough.
M’kay, first of all: DO NOT call depressed people nasty cows, CutXCry is probably just feeling upset and you calling her that just make matters worse, and just because someone is depressed doesnt mean you should assume they are crazy and hook them up with some medication. Things dont work that way here. And Niki, you were right this person is scoffing at us and viewing us as nothing. I have a few questions for you. Have you ever taken the time to see the world for what it truly is? Have you ever seen how horrible our economy is? Do you ever stop to think about anyone but yourself? And most importantly, have you ever taken the time to try and understand what a person goes through everyday? Meaning have you ever tried to see life through that persons eyes? Not everyone is lucky like you. Not everyone has a reason to enjoy life. People come here to seek relief in hopes that others will understand what they go through, and we do. Sometimes we cant enjoy the luxury of life because something tragic happens, or we get depressed, or bad things happen. I’m not trying to be mean, but insulting people by calling them nasty cows is NOT okay. Not everyone can just easily get rid of depression, life doesnt work that way. We are not all fortunate, but I will tell you one thing: I have never seen smarter more talented and capable people than the inspiring people on this site. Dont be selfish and grow up please. I know you arent trying to be insulting but to others it sounds like it. So re-word what you say please. Thanks
Worthlessgirl: How can you come on here and offer advice to anyone? You who screamed at everyone that you are going to ‘stab yourself repeatedly’ and moaned and moaned about someone getting ‘more attention than you’??
Someone like you gives people on here a bad name – you’re just a selfish and f@cked up b1tch, who tries to make good people feel guilty just for being themselves. I mean the SH1T you caused coz you wasn’t ‘getting enough attention’ on here and making good people feel bad coz they didn’t stretch themselves even further. You then make claims such as ‘I am going to stab myself repeatedly’ so that you PURPOSELY make those GOOD people feel bad. You had no intention of killing yourself, you just wanted to upset people AND you make a mockery of those on here who really do feel bad enough to kill themselves. Spiteful cow. You project your crap onto good people. And you have the audacity to come on here and do it all over again.!!!
PLEASE go away and find someone/somewhere else to project your hateful sh1t.
add-Y,
Aren’t you supposed to have friends to go fever with ?
What made you so bored to walk into the alley of the losers ?
Haa, you must be a X, looking for a Y here.
But strange, even money can dress you good in glamour, and at least find some whores to play with. But why here ?
Seeing that you hate women so much, by addressing them as cows, your mother must have left you too early in your time, don’t worry, it’s just a reflection of your hating her gone too soon without teaching you the manner enough to treat female as ladies, well my condolence here to you.
But you reacted quite timidly towards guys like “_” coming on you strong, it’s a typical child abused by your father with belt whacking you since young, or your average build and talents are limiting you to have a sense of self protection.
Anyways, thank you for reading my posts. That might have hit a soft spot of yours !
Otherwise you won’t be reminding that so much in your comment.
And you are quite right about my (“Obsession With Money”) by my already giving up my Ferrari and Porsche and houses and money, all for Money Sake, I thought could rid enough of my material possessions, and help sustain a spiritual peace in other than my shelter from rain !
And I also hope someday you can get at least a Porsche to see where you can really get from it then.
Otherwise you are still far off from knowing or have a sense of me, not even to speak for the world or things you are ignorant of !
BTW, quote your sayings (“drop the god act”, there is no “good & evil”)
Then, what are you doing here, doing good ? doing evil ? or both ?
And who are you representing, good ? or evil ?
Or simply you are bored ? but you said (“I am NEVER bored”). How strange that you are here !
(“Caring about others is pointless and makes you weak”)
So are you caring ? Are you weak ?
Or just mumbling being here, without love !
(“We were born with an ego, that ego is a part of evolution”)
(“it’s full of the most egotistical people I have ever come across” in this site ???)
Come on, guy, you’re contradicting yourself all along !!
Do you need medication instead of saying others should ?!
Fireflies: Your attempt at trying to sound clever and insightful, unfortunately have failed miserably, I’ll tell you why;
1. My mother is a wonderful woman, I adore her and always have.
2. My father never ‘beat me with a stick’. He has always been my closest friend.
3. I am married to a wonderful woman who would never thing of me as anything other than very respectful of women.
4. I did not come on here to ‘do good’, I came to show the reality of the world. In support of MY reality as apposed to yours, is that the MAJORITY of the population sway towards my reality than yours. And that is why people who have your reality are TREATED WITH MEDICAL CARE.
You must have been working on your little piece all night you poor deluded little person with the world on your shoulders. But your attacks are all completely wrong. So what now? You make up some more nonsense to make yourself feel better about my having a ‘good life’ that in your eyes just isn’t possible unless you are some higher spiritual being??
How many of your ‘real friends (not these online ghosts) but real flesh and blood friends would sit with you right now and laugh at my reply and call me insane or deluded? How many? Be honest, it’s only a few or probably none. I could turn round right now in work and show this post to all my colleagues, who are not even my closest friends (and so they owe me nothing) and they would ALL say that about yours.
I could also ask the same question of you my friend, why are you still on here? Haven’t you killed yourself yet??
Your fighting a loosing battle my friend and saying ‘hurtful’ stuff to me MIGHT hurt if any of it was the TRUTH! hahaha
Fireflies: It’s clear that you hate anyone that is happy and you hate material wealth. I have never said that material wealth is some ‘holy equivalent’, I have only ever said that it is what runs this world and must be obtained (not necessarily in large amounts) to be able to survive – I never said that was right or wrong, it is just the truth, the way it is. And I have played that game. You haven’t, that’s fair enough, that’s your choice. I was just trying to point out that (at least for me and for everyone I know) life is easier and more enjoyable if you play the game.
You missed the point entirely, but then the point wasn’t what you are interested in. You are only interested in hating those that have what you don’t and because you don’t have it, you are suicidal. Or are you? You’re so up and down, no-one can really tell. It is clear to ANY rational mind that you are obsessed by the material world, more obsessed than ME, for I don’t wont to kill myself over it.
And your comments about why am I here is rude, this is a public forum you don’t own this simply because it says ‘suicidal project’ you know, just like you don’t own ANYTHING even your own home, soon you’ll be a bum on the streets but at least you got that nasty spirituality to keep you warm!! Oh and yes, I nearly forgot, it was a WOMAN wasn’t it that took that house from you? Hmm, makes me wonder if you jumped on the ‘cow’ comment because of what’s inside your OWN mind.
I came on this site because I am wealthy and I know that money CAN bring happiness and I was looking for someone very genuine and with a good heart who was looking to kill him or herself simply down to money – I cannot offer anyone spirituality or ‘God’ as I don’t believe in it, but I could offer someone work or money. I wanted to put something back and open my heart to other things. But you have made me see that I came to the WRONG PLACE.
add-Y,
here you said :
“Don’t worry, I wont be coming back on here, it’s full of the most egotistical people I have ever come across, but you won’t go out and face the REAL world cause you know you’re not good enough.”
I just want to prove who you really are in your words. Thank you for your Coming Back. Again, thank you for showing me that.
Looks to me like he came back to defend himself, the man has right to do that. What’s wrong with everyone on here lately? It’s the most hateful place.
Fireflies – I see what you hate about this man, I am not attacking you, but I don’t see that he came with bad intentions. Step back for just one moment and look at the big picture, you are being just as, if not more hurtful and spiteful than he was, but your just hiding yours in a defense strategy and from a place of supposed ‘good’ what you are doing is pretty vulgar mate. You HAVE come across as a hater, in that respect Addy is right.
I’m glad you said that Tom cause I was feeling the same. I agree that ‘some’ of what this addy said is off key but he’s only speaking his (and many others) truth. He came here to help in any way he could and he gets absolutely slated for it! I came here to maybe talk with someone feels the same as I do about life, but I would NEVER attack anyone else for having their view. It just shows what a horrible world we live in and how lost and pretty disgusting we all are.
the world is horrible because we allow it to be horrible. we have controll over are bodys we dont have to be discusting
I’m off to eat some mushroom soup, be good while I’m gone xx
@May: “It just shows what a horrible world we live in and how lost and pretty disgusting we all are.”
no, it’s not all a lost cause. After reading further of what addy said, I can see that there are some points that I actually quite agree with him, and see where he’s really trying to HELP, but in his *OWN* way.
and therefore, I want to apologize for what I’ve said earlier, it might be a bit too harsh for someone whose intention is TRYING to help.
However, on the other hand, I can see also some points of him (addy) that I disagree with, simply, and simply because I have *different* point of view, goals, and also Purpose in Life than him.
I guess it’s perhaps either a very beautiful coincidence, or “something” is trying to tell me, by yesterday’s sermon (yes although I’m an ex-Christian I still come to church), the speaker is telling a story of how *different* the path between him, and his old university friend who is now much more successful financially.
But I’m glad that the end of his story is each other can RESPECT each other’s path, and choice of life.
and that every path can have its own part to HELP THIS HUMANITY & THIS WORLD, as a whole.
either it’s the money & job offer for the unemployed & underpriviledges by people like addy (ie: the more ‘practical’ help, so-to-speak), or also if it’s an ‘enlightment’ and wisdom insights by some people here in this website (especially Splinter, I really admire this guy’s post here http://suicideproject.org/2010/08/lets-face-it-were-all-evil-in-some-way/ . He speaks the Truth that often forgotten by many people nowadays because they’re too “busy with their own lives”).
So bottomline, if there is any lesson that I’ve learned from here is that: People are DIFFERENT.
And judging each other, and especially CHANGING each other is perhaps won’t be as easy as we think, ie: as you can see, it’s often *naturally* met with self-defenses, and more judgements and worse is hating each other’s views!
IT DOESN’T have to be this way!
What is most important is for each, and BOTH and ALL of us to *RESPECT* each other’s view, and keep doing what we always *KNOW* to be the right thing deep inside our heart.
addy, if you said earlier that most people are “loving”, then please keep showing ’em by Actions. help the poors & underpriviledges, for they are still your brothers & sisters, one human race who’s still living in one single planet called Earth. We are all together in all of this, but also in each other’s unique way. How beautiful actually if we all realized about this!
Tom6 is right, sometimes we have to look at the ‘bigger picture’, instead of keeping stubborn with our own views and close-mindedness, hence, we’ll never learn and GROW, needed to create a bigger CHANGE, for a better humanity & the world.
May peace be with you, everybody.
oh my god, another post “awaiting moderation” ????
Look, I’m REALLY sorry, I just kind of lost it for a minute. I didn’t mean to cause an uproar. David1 please forgive her for whatever she has done, because I thought this was a place where people get along and don’t say anything mean to one another. A lot of people want attention sometimes, its human nature. Please forgive me Addy, I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings, or anyone else on here. I’m REALLY, TRULY, HONESTLY, SORRY. And David1 please, please, PLEASE forgive her. People can change, right? I’m sorry to everyone here who witnessed the argument, and saw my bad behavior. I really don’t want everyone to hate me 🙁