na ah its mine! nah just joking sorry. it scares people you know theres a lot in everyones head alot of people seem like they are very straight on but sometimes it can even get to be to much especially having someone close to you in pain… cant you understand where he might be coming from if it hurts you and you dont like it why hurt yourself. i know my reasons to cut and burn…. self hatred calming technique or self loathing. but for other people that seems weird right in relationships its nice to consider thier feelings when they consider ours.