Hi, I’m a first time poster, but I wanted to let people know that I am in a constant state where I want to kill myself when I look at how good everyone around me has it socially… All of my friends have girlfriends and I feel like I should too, I’m 20 years old and have never kissed a girl but the strange thing is, is that I’m such a nice person to people. I feel like it’s because I’m short (5’6) and all my friends are tall, they’re just so lucky.
I get so sick of it that every single day I just want to end it to show all these girls that they could have had a nice guy instead of the usual ass holes they date. I just feel like any girl who is ever nice to me has a boyfriend, besides that, most of them refuse to talk to me. I suppose I’m here seeking re-assurance because I want to end my life.
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david,
I can understand your frustration, I am 26 and stand a whole five foot three (I have to duck down everytime I enter a room, afraid I’ll brain myself on the frame). I will not tell you what to do, or what to think. However, I will give my opinion however – take it as you will. If you’re looking for something, you’re apt to find it when you don’t look. And, if these women refuse you, maybe you’re looking in the wrong room – mind the door, on your way through… Try not trying so hard next time. Hope this helps and if doesn’t, well I’ve never been good with words…
Me to and come so close about girls there all were highheals anyway. All your friend’s got girls ok so that
My first love was 5 foot 4. Do not let your height discourage you.
I am very sorry you feel this way, and i wish i had words that could make you feel better….all I can say is that I am sure your perfect girl is out there; you are only 20 and have SO much life to live and so many places to see. one of my dear friends is 25 and never been kissed, instead of letting it get them down, they have just dug their feet in the ground and lived life to the fullest; trusting that it will happen one day.
Don’t give up. One day you are going to find the woman that makes you forget about all these silly girls
Know what you mean. I am only five foot two. I’m a girl, so it’s not quite so bad, but all my friends tease me for it. It never used to bother me, I thought it was quite cute actually, but now am paranoid. I have never had a boyfriend and am nearly 18. Like you, all the nice boys I know have girlfriends, usually ones that treat them like shit. I agree with the other comments too. Don’t let your height bring you down (…), you sound like a really nice boy and I’m sure you’ll find a nice girl who loves you for exactly who you are.
Yeah sounds familiar.
Im 20 aswell. Ive kissed a few girls, Im actually bisexual though, but I supose my insecuritys now is kinda like your height problem. But theres someone out there for everyone? Everyone likes different things in a girlfriend/boyfriend, you’re bound to find someone eventually who likes shorter guys or someone your height or shorter.
Like Hannah said, you’l find someone who loves you for exactly who you are..
OK you are small but have you sean the lord of tht rings
Joke it’s inyour haad
Hey buddy dont let your height bother you and your not that short i’ve seen shorter guys i always see short guys with girlfriends or chicks that are alot taller then them who cares im pretty short and i kinda hate it but everyone just thinks its cute cause im a chick so i guess its a bit different but i hate having to always wear high shoes so im not so bloody small compared to everyone else but what can you do and not all girls want a 6 foot guy i hate tall guys cause im little the right girl will come along and your height wont be such an issue for you anymore and dont worry bout your tall friends girls will soon catch on that they’re dickheads and they should’ve payed more attention to you xo!