i really don’t know where to start
i’ve self harmed for a year and a half, it’s only getting worse, i have very low self esteem, my family is a complete mess, including abuse, attempted suicide and murder, affairs. that’s the least of my worries, i hate myself with a passion, what’s so wrong with me that makes everyone in my life want to leave me? i saw a psychiatrist for roughly a year, which really didn’t help me, neither did anti-depressants, i think about suicide everyday, how much easier it would be to feel nothing, i don’t think i could do it though, i’d feel too bad leaving the few people which do care about me. i feel so alone, unwanted, and unloved. nobody knows who i am, and i can’t explain how i feel very well. i just wish i was happy, every single night i cry myself to sleep, i feel as if i have no purpose what so ever. people say i’m beautiful, and how they want to be me, but looks are nothing when you feel so low, all i wish for is to be happy. it almost makes me feel sick watching people joking together, just because i want that so much. everything is just so fucked up, i don’t know what to do any more, i can’t let more people into my life in fear they will leave me. please can someone help me, i cannot take this any more! :'(
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I can help do u wanna email me any
i don’t think anyone can help now..
Ya I can talking can help a lot a lot more than u know
if u wanna email me u can
Hi,
I guess it would be condescending for me to say that I know how you feel, since my problems aren’t on the scale of yours. But I’ve had my shares of downs, even to this day. Days in which I would be a mass of a crying blob in my dorm room. Sometimes I want to end it, which would make it a lot easier, but like you, thinking of the people who I love hold me back from it. If you would like to talk, please let me know.
I know exactly how you feel… even though I didn’t experience the things you have. I also feel unloved, unwanted, and uncared for. People have told me all these nice things before too, but once they’re done with me, they just leave me cold out. Idk what it is, but everyone leaves me too. At least you have people who care about you.. you can at least hang with them or talk to them and enjoy time with them and all that..
Something brought you to this site, so someone should be able to help.
The reality is, anyone who hasn’t had a proper upbringing doesn’t know how to cultivate a normal life with love….. If things don’t get set up from the beginning they fall apart later on in life. It’s not your fault. If there is as much dysfunction in your family as you wrote, there’s lots of work for you to do to understand how you were negatively impacted and viewed your experience during your upbringing. Good luck. Again, it’s not your fault.
i know 2 what you feel… today i went to school to check up on some things… i didn’t had to go today but still waned to go…and talk to some people from my previous school…
but when i got there the teacher – MY MENTOR – just told me to go and that i should not come when i don’t had an appointment…and just kicked me out…
the people at my school are professionals as well but look at just this…this is not professional at all…just a bunch of people that want there money…
the thing on its one does not hurt…but every day something little like just fucks you up