what else can i say? its the same nightmare over and over again. all the rage the fighting. the screaming……
recently my boyfriend of 6 months dumped me because i wasn’t talking to him all that much.i tried to explain to hiim why. but he wouldn’t listen, but we talked last night and i told that i was sorry…. being that i’m not very social in the first place. why won’t he listen? i have no idea. i honestly have gone a bit nuts because of this. I don’t know what to do. i miss him so much, we still talk but i still have this black hole in the middle of my heart. what makes it even worse is he already has another girl. i’m at a complete loss here. and i am truly pissed especially becasue he says that he still loves me and cares about me. if he really does then why is he already with another girl. 🙁 i mean ya he is a bit older than me…. but does age matter? ugh… *sigh*
Something……
I try and try to make things right.. but nothing ever seems to go right for me… you tell me you love….. i look away for one day and i turn around and your gone. No where to be found, not word not even a goodbye…… is this what i deserve? Honestly i think this is best. even though your nothing to me anymore.
I hate writers block. but i hate my ex even more. Yes i know i was partly in the wrong by not talking to him all that much but i was busy, and my parents were always yelling at me whenever i would try to respond to a text. Why do guys always assume the worse? All well, i guess i’ll get over it… soooner rather than later…. I hope…..
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Prepare for him going back to you, or wanting to. I’ve seen this a million times, boy breaks up with girl, boy finds new girl, boy breaks up with 2nd girl and goes back to 1st girl, who lets him. And it repeats, pretty much forever.
So I hope you do get over it, and not go back to your “ex” when he wants you back, which I guarantee you he will.
ya. i know. i’ve had it happen too many times. i honestly cant stand him. and my best friend his cousin. is ready to kill him because of who the other girl is. which i find funny, but im still pissed at him. i hope i am over him by the time he realizes he still wants me, hopefully i’ll have someone better by then too.
lesson nr 1 for every girl in the worl: the more you play hard to get, the more they run after you. the more you show that you don’t want him, the more he’ll try to get you. it’s in their nature! So keep that in mind. And also, he is lying : if a boy really loves you , BELIEVE ME he would do everything to get you and keep you. And that boy is already with another girl! doesn’t there ring any bells? Be happy that he’s not with you, because you are too nice for him and HE is the one who’s not social , not you, you don’t deserve being treated like that and he doesn’t deserve your love. if he dups you for that kind of stuff… he’s not worth it. there are sooo many nice men in the world who TRULY love you. if you really believe that he loves you as he sais, you don’t know what love is. I’m sure that he’ll come back and try to seduce you and get you back, but if he does, never ever go back. when a person shows his real personality once to you, you must believe him,and he showed you that he doesn’t love you, so believe him!don’t get seduced with kind words, flowers etc, let him regret his whole life that he hasn’t been able to keep you.
What you can do now is: be happy that this guy is gone, if you see him , act like you’re very happy and do not give him much attention, just hi and bye, and enjoy getting known other boys, there are so many of them with much better qualities than him, so why should you get satisfied with someone who doesn’t really love you?
I have to agree with you there. He started somemore crap with my best friend, and im fed up with him. but i have a feeling he is goin gto regret a lot of things. though i know revenge isnt the right choice but for me thats how i do things. I am already feeling better about things. Because somethings are panning out. and my best freinds older brothers have a few things in mind, and if my parents knew about this im sure my brothers and dad would have a few things to say as well beside ‘i told ya so’. But im just going to let things pan out. and i wouldnt dream of going back to him.
yes, don’t dream about that, opposite; be happy that he’s not with you, so you won’t suffer anymore, he’s really not worth it! are you close with your brothers ? try to talk with them about that, so you’ll see the opinion of another man about this.
i will talk to one of my close friends. im not that close with my brothers they are all younger than me. i have who is adopted and older than me. but we dont get along. thank you
oh, i was hoping that you could at least get along with 1 of them, but i really hope things work out for you, please keep thinking positively! and if you ever want to talk you can mail me : bella_l@hotmail.nl
i sent you a message.. thank you!