when dose it get better?

hey 13. you do have so much time for things to get better. what you need to do is live for yourself till you are happy with how you are. that way you can also be happy by yourself.

you’ll find at that age people will say that, but there will be people who care about you. you have so many years to make friends, and you have people to talk to on here all the time.

well thats understandable, you will feel that way. like youre lost because of not haing your best friend around. you need to work through that before you decide to do anything, like get through all the things and feelings that come with that. but to be honest i dont see how anyone can fault you with feeling bad right now, even if you start acting out from it, i know i drank myself into oblivion when i lost my best friend.

i get that, i havn’t cut, but i understand why, just to feel something, anything. well we are here to be with you while you cry and try to get through it. thats what this site is for. i wish id known about it when i lost mine.

im 25, well in a couple months. yeah i get the wanting to feel something. i tend to just drink, which is no better to be honest.

hey alcohol doesn’t stop tears, just puts some flavour into them

yeah true. it can pick you up a bit, bit it gets bad when you start the day with vodka and orange juice

more of a reason not to, maybe you should find a new way, not with drinking or cutting, maybe with music, or a hobby, something you have an intrest in