okay so i didn’t go through with it ’cause mum woke up too early from her nap
i just woke up and she’s still sleeping, so yeah
okay so i’ma just tell you all how i grew up real quick so you get a better view of my situation;
i grew up with mum, without friends, dad didn’t want me and he was a complete ***** to my mum, so she kicked him out when i was 8 months old. he’s an alcoholic.
mum and i used to be close but now we can’t barely be in the same room . we always yell at each other and argue. she says she doesn’t wanna see me again, kicks me out the house and threatens me. and she says i’m just like dad. which i’m definitely not
like i said, i grew up without friends, when i was a toddler i always played these baby drums, guitar and some piano attached to a book. then i got my first guitar when i was like 10 or 11, now i’m 17
anyway, i had friends a few years ago but i blew it ’cause of my dysfunctional family and mental issues. manic depression, sleeping problems, anger issues, social anxiety, major ocd, mood swings and i’m a major emetophobe. emetophobia is a phobia of feeling and beign sick.
i’ve almost been killed 3-5 times where i live. i was bullied in school and got beat up a lot. i was often chased home from school as well.
so i sit in my room and play guitar and harmonica all day. i like making people laugh. i like watching ghost hunters international, friends, that ’70s show, everybody loves raymond and king of queens. and there’s this documentary i love to watch, madagascar – island of marvels. highly recommend it.
my depression’s made me kinda lose the interest in making music, i used to make music and listen to music all the time, now i just play random shit for a few minutes ’cause i just cba. it’s kinda hard to explain but if you have or have had manic depression or depression or whatever i think you’ll know what i’m talking about.
so yeah i guess that’s it. i might or might not post one last post later ‘fore i go
awh shit this turned out much longer than i wanted it to. but yeah whatever, you ain’t gotta read all of it
EDIT: i dropped out of high school ’cause of me and my mum, my mental issues and bullying. i never paid attention anyway, i’ve never even studied in my life. i always sat there playing guitar in my head kinda. so yeah my grades weren’t the best (before high school, idk what my grades were in high school)
i used to steal jewellery and shit to afford a meal when i was 14. i still have to but i don’t do it. mum has a job but she doesn’t get paid so it’s kinda pointless to still work there. idk what she does though so errm yeah.
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Feel sorry for you. But after this your mother might also comit suicide as well:(
i don’t think she will
she’s going out with this guy, he’s married though. but yeah, he seems to lean more towards my mum. so i hope he breaks up with her wife y’know
I see here a lot of problems, caused by people who should be responsible. There is no blame from your side in this, this information should help you with the pain that your cooping with. Cause it is not your fault, you`ll know in time, things have to go better, as long you keep on fighting. You being here gives you a reason to delay your choice and reconsider your steps. Many people with this same background have overcome themselves and became something they did not even dreamed off. I overcame and grow 10 times higher then my eyes could see. Allow me to give you the permission to do this for yourself. Drop people who block you in your way, your life is about to begin very soon. Break out of the egg and leave the nest. Better times are on the corner waiting for you. You have skills God gave you to help yourself. Take these skills with you and discover that LIFE is greater then you would even think it would be….
If you need a talk, lmk
i hope and pray you do not kill yourself. your life sounds incredibly hard, but hey, you know guitar, which means you’ve got more to live for than me. i’ve been trying to learn for 3 years and i’ve only managed to learn to play chords, can’t read music, can barely read tabs, and it takes me forever to switch between chords. i’m just not gifted. but hey listen. please try to wait a while long, not just a few hours, but a few days maybe, a month? if you need money play on the entranceway to the metro/train or whatever. i wish i could b there to help you, but i’m stuck where i am… but really, please try to give life another chance…
Ps married guys are not a group you want to put your money on my friend. Your mom has her own life and has decided to leave you out of her emotional world, perhaps you remind her to much of pain and her past.
Your dad might be a drunk from time to time, but he is the closest thing you ever had to a parent. Also keep in mind that Moms always say Dads where a loser and did all things bad. Add some water with the wine, and perhaps your life is not so black at all.
PS i was bullied on school also long time. Why dont you fight back he? If your willing to drop your life for losers like this, you might try to fight them before you say BEY BEY
I say this, cause I think you have spirit and you have a goal on this earth. You missed the message somewhere in your life, hence your here
There are ways to get out of your problems and suicide should be the last. I had most of your problems also growing up plus getting raped, forced to have abortion…ect…you get the idea.
I made it and now have 3 wonderful kids. I dropped out in 10th grade no GED and am a Nursing assistant making $15 an hour.
Life is what you make of it. Build yourself up and say “I am gonna do this” and go do it.
I hate to see such a nice cute boy dissapear.
If you feel that is your only option I hope you find peace. Just keep in mind what you might be throwing away tho…LOVE, KIDS HAPPYNESS
Hang in there and talk to me if you need. I am twice your age and I will not preach to you (I don’t believe in god anyway) I will help you if you open up
I will be at work all day…I hope to see you when I get home
Love ya hunny
I checked out Madagascar – Island of Marvels part 1 on youtube (the first 15 minutes), when it showed the scenery in the beginning i was like ‘duuuude lets go there.’ The species there were tripping me out though haha (the lemurs and the chameleons).
*did you know that humans and monkeys only have a 2% difference in DNA structure…* c(Oo)o
i don’t want to get started with… these theories which suggest humans were genetically engineered by higher forms of life and blah blah blah. Check out Ancient Aliens from the History Channels ….it’s about THE ANCIENT ASTRONAUT THEORY… it suggest we were visited by ALIENS. =O
ALIEN: extraterrestrial being, being from another planet or another part of the universe. *** if humans came down on another planet, we would be considered aliens by the inhabitants there***…eh im done talking about this though haha.
but yeah anyways you like harmonica? check out the song im about to put then, Cowboy Bebop OST 1 – Spokey Dokey
^ i’ve put it up on this site once before so maybe you’d already checked it out, if not hope you check it out.
sweetheart please answer………