I miss my best friend.
I wish I could go back in time and tell her how much of a jerk her boyfriend is instead of supporting her. He sucks, he is arrogant and mean. He is that guy who gets in a position of power and everyone underneath him is his own personal *****.
That’s me.
She puts him on a pedestal above everyone. 6 years of my life I feel is wasted.
I hope she doesn’t expect me to be in her wedding. That would mean losing her completely. Dealing with all my anger and frustration is hard alone in the house I share with her. I hate being stuck in this lease. I want to scream and yell at her, but instead of causing conflict I take it out on myself.
I don’t know how to get through to her to show her I still matter, she would trash me for him anyways. She has made that pretty clear by wanting to give up her future career for him, I don’t compare.
I want to leave, maybe moving away from everything here will solve all my problems but wouldn’t that be running? From what I hear running doesn’t solve your problems it just buries them for a while.
I know I am so lucky to have what I do, but I feel so very empty. I don’t want to end my life I think about it and it makes me want to cry. How could I leave everyone that loves me, it hurts to think about. But yet I still think about it everyday and cause more harm than good putting on a fake smile pretending I am even remotely okay.
I just hope to gain back the happiness I had when I was a child, always dancing playing. The happiness that comes from ignorance of the real world. I wanna say putting this in words is helping, but I still feel very much alone.
-B
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Maybe you should just move out. Or try to knock some sense into her. Not to be mean or anything but she must be stupid to give up her career for some guy. If this doesn’t even work out, then she will regret making that deision. She needs to think about what she is doing. Giving up her career and living a life full of regert or think about what she will be doing spend time with him for the rest of his life. :L
My lease isn’t up until may. So I am stuck in this hell til then. I’m not sure I am going to be able to make it here. It’s too much, too much pressure to be perfect and try to live up to her level of perfection.
I think you’re crazy to stay in that situation just because of a lease. Forget the money, go stay with a friend or family or shelter, doesn’t matter. Have you discussed if her new BF can take the lease over from you?
Stop beating yourself up and move on – that’s impossible to do until you move out. There’s nothing wrong with running away from a bad situation.