my boyfriend’s friends and brother laughed at me for not being the way i looked and not hot??
and he laughed along with it.
We’ve been together 2 years and i thought he understood what i went through when i hear those things after my long depression
and low self esteem. I thought he’d understand because he’s been called ugly most of his life…
and i told him he didnt thats why i fell in love with him, he’s handsome and great.
And ouch* to laugh along with them about how i looked really brought me down.
You would think someone you cared for and loved would treat you good and respect you.
respect lost, respect gone, im crying, im not eating, im drinking water everyday and a banana every 2 days.
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hon,please don’t do this to yourself! i’m recovering from an eating disorder myself,and please-it’s not worth it. i had low self esteem when i was younger,and I still struggle with it,but i wish I could go back to when I was younger and avoid falling into the ed trap. your bf and his brother and friends were being complete asses.(i’m sorry,but it’s true!) they have no right out say things like that to you. but you have to realize that they are the problem,not you. your bf sounds like he might be insecure too,maybe he just went along with them because of peer pressure. that’s no excuse though. you deserve someone who treats you right and appreciates how lucky he is to have you. your beautiful! don’t ever forget it! please take care of yourself. healthy is gorgeous.
Wow..this is so familiar to me..Im not one to give advice. All i can say is that I know how it feels when the person you love most laughs at the way you look..i can only comment on what i know and that is a sign that a relationship is going to end…but only if he was serious. Maybe they were joking..Guys often joke about that when they know they think youre as hot as can be. Dont do this to yourself though. After two years, im sure he thinks youre perfect.