I’m so sick of the bullying, harassing, teasing, laughing,
the discrimination, the name calling, the sexual comments, the torture.
Why is everyone around me is sick, suffering, in pain, and dying?
Everyone thinks they know how I feel, what I’m going through, why.
They judge my my expressions, my tone, my mood, my thoughts.
I wouldn’t mind being killed, or killing myself at any moment.
It’s like a never ending story, it’s like a living Hell.
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hi, farmerstrong13… I agree that there comes a point when the actions of others get tiring. Enough gets to be enough. There will always be people in life who get in your way and knock you when you’re down. Sadly, it’s part of life. More importantly, there will be many others who have your back and will support you. Don’t forget that! Let people judge… If they have nothing better to do with their time, so be it. One day, perhaps they will learn when karma sends things back around. Please don’t let them distract you from accomplishing what you need to. Whether or not they agree or comment, it’s not their life… It’s yours. Keep working hard… There are people to help push you forward.
Who does those things to you?
distant.road, again, thank you for another inspiring message. It’s appreciated. Like you said though, enough gets to be enough, and it just gets hard for me to pay attention to the important things because I’m frustrated with them and wondering if I really am what they say I am.
Mark, mostly people at school. My family does it a little too.
You really are not what they say you are… You know yourself best. You walk in your shoes everyday. Nobody knows you better than you. Their comments, and a dollar, will get them a cup of coffee somewhere… That’s about it. Don’t let anything push you back. You’re worth more than that.
distant.road, I surely hope so… It just sucks with all the name calling and abuse (mental, emotional, and even physical), and then to top it off, people seem to be dying left and right and I feel helpless and guilty. It just really sucks.
is there any way for you to get away from it? could you transfer schools? nobody has the right to hurt you,esp. not physically!
Ella, I haven’t even really told anyone about any of this. Everyone thinks I’m happy except a few people. I’ve brought up cyber school, but I said it was for different reasons, when really, I just wanna get away from that school. I don’t have the guts to tell an adult, and everyone I do tell, I make them promise not to tell anyone else.
Ellachristina is absolutely right.. PHYSICAL? Nobody, nobody, nobody has the right to place a hand on you. Is there someone you can speak to about this? Maybe a school transfer would help?
distant.road, I’m scared to talk to anyone in person. They’re gonna judge me, my family is going to be disappointed in me, and I’m going to lose the few friends I have. Then my life will be totally ruined.
farmerstrong13, people cannot hit you. That isn’t cool. Judging is one thing… Physical abuse is another. You don’t deserve any of it… but the physical stuff needs to be addressed. Your true friends will stand by you… They wouldn’t want to see you hurt either.
hon,please,you have to do something. you don’t deserve to be treated that way.do ou hear me? please believe it. no one can focus on school when they’re being treated so terribly. i think internet school would be a good idea if that’s what you want. you don’t have to tell our parents if you really don’t want to,but i think it’s important that you try to get awa from these people,or at least get help somehow. our definitely not alone, I don’t think anyone would judge you.
distant.road, yeah, that’s true… But my parents will still be disappointed in me an they’ll treat me differently and baby me. I don’t want that. I just want the bullying to stop. That’s all. I don’t want anybody in trouble or anything.
there’s definitely no judgement here.
Ella, I hear you. I’ve been talking to an online psychiatrist, bit it’s not like they can actually stop or prevent any of this from happening. I might try to do cyber school…
if you did do cyber school,you could say it’s for a different reason. maybe that there are more opportunities and different classes to choose from,ones that aren’t available at your school? I get what you mean about not wanting to make a big deal about it,and not wanting to make it worse. i’ve been there too. i’m really sorry your going through this. but whatever you decide to do,just remember you don’t deserve this. the bullies are the screwed up ones,NOT you.
farmerstrong13, I don’t think anybody wants you to encounter physical abuse… I can understand your concerns about being babied and not wanting people to get in trouble… but bullying is something that can grow over time if it’s not addressed. It’s more a matter of you being in a safe environment than anything else. Is there somebody in the school you can confide in? If they can keep an eye out and then they happen to see something, that takes the pressure off you. You didn’t get anybody in trouble… They got themselves in trouble. This just isn’t cool.
if you could just get out of that environment. do you have any family you could go stay with? maybe you could transfer schools then,and move away,at least for awhile?
Ella, that would be a good excuse to join (even better if it’s true). And yeah. I try to tell myself I don’t deserve it, but then I turn around and blame myself for some stupid reason. I have held a gunntonmy head before and cut…
distant.road, if the bullying continues to increase, I’ll handle it my own way, but that’s my last option (or so I tell myself). I guess I could tell a friend so they can have my back… That’s a good idea..
Ella, I can’t move. Then everyone will know something is wrong with me…
they don’t have to. people move all the time,maybe you went to stay with your sick grandparent.and anyway-who cares what they think? i know it’s hard.:( i’m just mad at the stupid jerks.:( and you DON’T deserve it. I would was abused when I was younger by someone who was supposed to love me,I know what your feeling. please don’t believe it,it’s not true-you don’t deserve this!! if i can help you,i’m always here.
*woops. I would go.
Ella, I remember my grandparents had a house about 4 hours away 5 years ago, bit they don’t have it anymore. I could’ve gone there. Other than that, no. I can’t think of anyone I could live with for a little. I’m sorry you went through abuse too. And thank you for your support. May I ask how old you are? I’m 14.
I’m 19. i’m sorry if i’m being super persistant,I just really want you to get out. you don’t deserve this. 🙁
I’m really sorry, farmerstrong13… It’s tough enough at age 14. Being bullied is just terrible. I would encourage you to tell somebody… just so your back is covered. Sometimes people switch schools for other reasons… Certain courses or classes… transportation… There has to be a solution to this. I don’t like this and I gotta believe there is a solution.
we can help you figure something out. distant is a genius,with the three of us together we should be able to come up with some way to make things better.
Ella, you’re fine. I appreciate your knowledge. Thank you.
distant.road, I’ll try to get the courage to tell someone. First, I have to figure out who I wanna tell though… A good friend, a protective one? Hmmm… And yeah…
your so welcome.:) the bullying is happening at school,right? no one else knows it’s happening though? usually someone sees though.i wish the teachers actually paid attention.
I would tell your most trusted friend if you don’t want anyone else to know. but if it was me,I had some older friends when I was younger,if you have any older guy friends I would tell them if I were you too. anybody who can protect you.
An anonymous note or e-mail could go a long way, farmerstrong13. School administrators or teachers get information all the time that they act on… sometimes unknown to anybody else. If you or somebody else could drop a hint that something is happening, you could have more people watching your back. I really do understand not wanting to get anybody in trouble… I remember peer pressure in high school. It’s not worth your physical well-being. The people bullying today will be the same people breaking the law in the future. They might not stop until they get a reality check. ellachristina’s original comment to get out of that situation is key… If the situation isn’t addressed, there has to be a solution… one way or the other.
Ella, a couple kids see it, but they think it’s kinda funny and that they’re just “messing around” with me, so they don’t think much of it. Trusted or older friends… Okay. I’ll have to think.
distant.road, anonymous email? I like that. I may do that… I would get out of the situation if I could. I’m joining a program called Young Marines, so hopefully I’ll be able to get away from those people and learn how to defend myself a little better.
hang in there.are you in highschool yet? i had some good older guy friends that were juniors when i was a freshman,if there is someone like that who can defend you it might help. they might not even have to if your surrounded by your them,the bullies might just stay away from you. upper classmen tend to really help i think. they’re intimidating. are the bullies your age?
good idea.:) that sounds awesome. good for you!
Sometimes sending things anonymously takes pressure off of the situation. Think about it… It might help. I just read a little bit about the Young Marines… It sounds like a great program. You learn some really important values in life… and, if you enlist later in the USMC, you can get a higher initial pay grade. Nice. I think it’s a great idea. It will also be a nice opportunity to meet new friends who have some solid values. That’s great!
Ella, I’m in 8th grade, so highschool is next year. I’m trying to think of friends I have older than me. They’re all in highschool. And yes, the bullies are my age, but like double my size.
distant.road, yeah. I’m hoping it’ll get me back on the right track. I think it will. And like you said, the people I will be around will be good people. Plus I am interested in the military. Also, I could then say I wanna do cyber school so I could work more on staying fit and getting stronger for the Young Marines…
i think self defense is a really good idea. i wish i could help more.:( i remember 8th grade. hang in there okay? we’re always here to help in any any we can. it’s really important to me that you don’t forget that your awesome okay ?the bullies are the ones who are screwed up. please don’t believe anything they say,it’s not true. people like that are just putting ou down to make themselves feel better. don’t listen to them,okay?
Ella, I’ll hang in there. I promise. And I won’t listen to them either. I promise. Thank you. If you ever wanna email, I’m farmerstrong13@hotmail.com. Same for anyone reading this. I’m free to email.
I think joining the military will be great… Great values and discipline… the chance to serve your country… and the opportunity to have college paid for. That’s a great track to be on. In a few years, those bullies of today will be a fading memory… They will mean zero as you’re moving forward in life. You’ll get back on track… No doubt. You want to do so… and that’s the important thing… Day by day, it will happen.
You two are so inspirational. I appreciate it. I’ll have to remember this conversation. Thank you.
And yes. I’m hoping to go Military Police, that way, I can make a difference I will notice immediately.
good.:) you can get through this,i know you can. i’m always here too, ellachristina92@hotmail.com. same for me-anybody can email,i’ll try my best to help.
The MPs have a tough job… both here and overseas. I respect you for wanting to do that. Definitely remember this conversation… You can do anything that you put your mind to. 🙂
distant.road, yes they do, but I surely don’t mind a challenge, and I’m in good shape, so I don’t see why not. And yes I can. (:
You two from the US? I’m from Pittsburgh.
I’m from the US… New York state… If you’re a Steelers fan, I can forgive you. 🙂
My neighbor died in Afghanistan about 2 years ago, so… that’s part of the reason I wanna join the military.
I am a Steelers fan, indeed. Hehe. You?
hehe,i’m from oregon. you guys totally got the cooler states. i put my email down too,but it’s awaiting moderation. i’m always here for anybody though,anyone can email,i’ll do my best to help.
Ella, awesome. (: Thanks.
You guys are really the best.
MY e-mail is ….. distant.road (at) mail.com … Anybody can e-mail… Hopefully that will avoid the moderation queue… I’m a Giants fan… I’m not a fan of the Steelers… but I can respect them… 🙂
distant.road, thank you. And yeah. I can respect anybody… Even Baltimore. lol
I’m sorry about your neighbor… I’ve lost a few friends that have served. Each one of them was a hero in my mind… I think your decision is more than admirable.
lol… I hate— er, dislike — Baltimore… but I DO love their stadium… When you get older, take a trip to Baltimore and see a game… You might hate the team, but it’s a great stadium. There are many stadiums I’ve been to that I’ve enjoyed… while booing their home team. 🙂
i remember 8th grade,and my freshman year was tough. but i made it through,and i know you will too.:) i know in the moment it can feel like nothing is ever gonna get better,but it will,i promise you. your gonna get through this. there is a whole world outside of highschool. thanks distant. i’m adding both of you. yay! lol.
i’m sorry about our neighbor too…i just saw that.:( i have a friend who lost a cousin.it’s terrible.
grr. my y keys hates me.:(
Eighth grade wasn’t pretty for me… Junior high and freshman/sophomore year were challenging years for me… But I made it… and, like ellachristina said, you will too. 🙂
distant.road, yes, and I lost another one today. He was sniped in April 2011, but couldn’t get anymore surgeries because he was weak and died this morning. I didn know hum personally though. And okay. That does sound like fun. Thanks. lol
Ella, thank you. 🙂
I have an extra ‘y’ for you, ellachristina… *passes the y*
I gotta head to bed. I ave big tests tomorrow. Take it easy, you two. Thank you for all of your help. It’s appreciated. Good night.
thanks distant.:P lol.
i’m so sorry farmerstrong. idk what else to say,that’s terrible. but at least he is in heaven now. he’s not in pain anymore.
g’night! 🙂
farmerstrong13 at hotmail .com
Ella, yep. That’s true. He’s all better now and watching over us.
Good night.
good night, farmerstrong13! Good luck on your tests!!
ellachristina92 at hotmail .com good luck from me too!
I understand exactly what you’re talking about. People always love to tell you stuff about who’s worse off. Your pain is yours and so very real.