the pain has become more then i can handle. i need it to stop! i need it to go away!!!1 please!
i want to kill myself  but i can’t do that to the ppl in my life…. i can’t. but i can’t keep going on like this. i haven’t cut in a while  tho i badly want to!  but i know cutting isn’t enough anymore.
almost every other 14 year old girl in the whorl don’t have to go through this, why do i?  want to die  i want the pain to go away, PLEASE make it stop, please?
-Morgan….RawrImaTurtle
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You think you’re alone in this struggle? Many girls your age are quietly struggling all around the world. Example 1: 15 Year Old Afghan Bride Beaten for Refusing to Enter Prostitution by In-Laws. Her in-laws of seven months pulled out her nails, clumps of hair, burned her with cigarette butts, and tore pieces of flesh from her body. Example 2: 15-year-old girl from Pakistan was forced into prostitution in the U.K. by her mother-in-law. Example 3: A fifteen-year-old Afghan girl was rescued by police from her husband’s house, where she had spent five months imprisoned in a toilet. She was beaten, her fingernails were removed and her arm was broken. These are only a few know stories, compared to the thousands still uncovered. Girls your age are fighting every day for their dignity, lives, and are finding ways to change their lives for the better. You are not alone in this struggle. Only you can change your world. Find a way to distract yourself and be a little productive. But first you need to change your attitude. If you can’t do this alone then find some support (I would start with your parents because they love you the most, no matter what you think).
this did not help me… made me feel stupid. how can i think I’m going threw this alone? when other people have it way more worse then me…
Morgan… You’re definitely NOT alone. There are many other teens (and adults) on this site who are struggling and trying to work through life’s issues. Please don’t stop trying… and don’t give up. There are solutions out there… and I’m sure others here will help you the best they can.
At 14, you have so much ahead of you. After high school, college and the working world begin. You can go in a completely new direction. There will be struggles then… and successes. Don’t stop now… There will be bright days ahead.
im scared of my future. what if i don’t make it into collage? what if i don’t get a good job? what if i have a family but can’t feed them….
For your questions, the answer is:
Preparation. Preparation. Preparation.
Study hard. Do the best you can. You will make it into college… Once you’re in college, do the same thing… Work hard… Go above and beyond. There is a lot of time between now and when you’ll start a family… and there are a lot of life decisions to make, too. What will you major in college? Where will you live? What type of job will you have? It’s a little too early to discuss it, but if you study hard and work hard, many things (including the family) will be just fine. IT WILL TAKE EFFORT!… but you can do it.
youre giving yourself ants(atomatic negative thinking)
youre thinking too far into the future
thank you, that helps a little…. and yes i know i do think to much..
Morgan.
If you have chosen to live you have no choice but to change your perspective.
There are no guarantees.
And no matter what you do calamity may come your way.
Still you can control yourself and in many cases that may eliminate or lessen any pain that yo may suffer.
Life is full of risks. You can choose to experience a lot and take them or to experience very little and stay safe. Either way is valid and positive.
And there is a range in between those options.
And who knows, maybe when you reach adulthood and can make your own decisions things may improve because you are no longer limited in your efforts.
thank you
Stop thinking about the bad thats going to happen, think about how great your life is going to be one day. How well your going to succeed, just how happy you will be. Think about it alot now, you might as well, because i can tell that when your up there more in life, things will be good. You will look back at these times, and just laugh as i have.
Life is good, life is great. Life will always get better, just you wait. Don’t sit and frown, get up and explore the town. Meet some new people, start a new life. And finally get rid of all that pain and strife.
its hard to think positive..
Teach yourself to think posative write a list of anything good or posative eg start small it might be you like you hair your smile the colour of your bike etc do this everyday for 1minute and see how many you can add to the list but start fresh everytime this will teach you to find something good in your life try it it works do it for a month and see if it helps start on here if you like dont knock it it works!!!just the thing to get out of a funk 😉
I know exactly how you feel. Im 18 today and feel the exact same as you! good on you for not cutting , unfortunatetly ive just started again. I havent got any good suggestions but Im here if you ever want to talk xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx stay strong xxxxxxxxxxxx
stuck in a rut
thank you, it means something that your commenting on mine. and the only reason i stopped cutting was becuz my mom… she checks regularly and i can’t see that look in her face again… but its sooooo hard not to cut… i find myself staring at a blade for hours trying to fight the urge
“its hard to think positive”
mos def .. it’s hard to see the sunlight when you’re at the bottom of the well