I found a girlfriend. I thought Id feel whole with someone to love. But somehow I feel the same. I feel like I’m just going to let her down or scare her away. Like I should just end it before either of us gets too attached. No one wants to be the girl whose boyfriend killed himself…
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I feel you man but just see where the relationship takes you.Take this from expierence,at times she’s qonna overeact and It’s qonna wanna make you end It but stick In there.If you really wanna end It then do It after yall qo yall’s separate ways.Think about this way,edleast you qot somethinq to live for.
your girlfriend might surprise you. people usually react badly to things because they are scared. i think(not that my opinion matters:P) that you should give her a chance. her love might be just what you need,and you don’t know how she’ll react because you haven’t given her a chance. i know a girl whose bf killed himself when we were in school,and it was so devastating to her,I don’t think she’s ever got over it. I’m glad your thinking about how it would effect her. trust me-she would want to help you. the girl i know would cry about it and say “if I’d only known,maybe there was something I could do”
please talk to us here. maybe we can help you feel better.
They key words you used “I thought”….what we think may or may not happen doesn’t mean much. What you should congratulate yourself on is you made a choice…this is a big thing, because you could have backed down with this attitude b4 you hooked up.
So now you’re in the relationship. Question for you…would you want your partner to expect wholeness from you…do you think you could provide that for anyone else? I know I couldn’t and neither could you. So, it stands to reason that your gf should not have that job…it’s an illusion. All life is perception along with fulfilling the needs we have. Best advice I would pass on is for you to act on instinct. This is how nature intends for us to act. Instinct is what the animals use, and they find mates all the time and don’t worry whether or not they will be around to support their mate. That’s life.
Make a choice, make another choice, and make another choice…think well of yourself in the process. It takes courage. Everything about what you posted is purely positive.
How do you feel about being in agreement with that truth. If you intend good things, good chance, good things will happen. If you intend or think about the opposite….it’s your choice. Why not say thank-you. Being grateful is a great remedy for depression. Not preaching at you…truly, it is along with taking it easy on yourself. Someone saw something in you that’s worth being with. Pat yourself on the back and smile. Take good care!
Never kill yourself over a girl man.