I feel so alone. I feel so lost. I feel so alone that I feel like I already died and everyone didn’t know or just didn’t care. I want to give up so bad. I can’t concentrate anymore. Words go past me and kinda jumble up in my mind. My hands shake because I always want to cry. Everyone’s gone. They all left. They’re all ghosts. Whenever I try to speak to someone, they ignore me. Or they’d look at me and roll their eyes. I used to be one of those popular girls. Everyone was my friend or wanted to be my friend. And I was never bratty about it. I was never one of those popular girls you saw on T.V. It was just because my personality was livid and I brought life. But everything’s changed. No one will even pass a glance at me. And I don’t know why. I don’t remember doing anything wrong. School is such a nightmare. I can’t do anything without someone accusing me of doing something. So I would go home and sit in my room and play sad music and cry. I’d sit in front of the mirror and cry. Mostly from self-esteem issues. I hate everything about the way I look. And the days where I feel most said, I’d resort to self-harm. I want to give up. My parents don’t care. I once didn’t come home for 4 days and they hadn’t even noticed. If I died, they wouldn’t notice. I’m nothing. I don’t get the use of trying, or living, or hearing. Hearing is the worst for me. I hear everything. I hear footsteps walking up behind me as someone tries to shove me. I hear the laughters of people who were close to me, laughing about something my “best-friend” had said about me. And it wasn’t a very nice comment. I hear rumours of me. I just don’t want to do this anymore. If living is some kind of sick game, then I lost a long time ago. I just want to die. So badly. I just don’t see the point. I’ve done so many things to myself. I’ve lived through so much hurt in my life. I just can’t do this anymore. I’m done. I want to die. I want to just leave.
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You know what? You haven’t done the ultimate. Try having your brother rape you and your three sisters their entire lives. Try dealing with that. At the moment you think you are so seclude and alone. Guess what? There are worse things that could have happened to you. Did you ever think, or maybe you have, that suicide only hurts the living? Who are you really trying to hurt here? So what, your mom and dad and friends don’t care. What cares? Really? Stop making them the people that determine your life. Try making yourself responsible. If you a aren’t happy where you are then change your college, or high school. Really? Those people who make fun of you, trust me, in a few years, will wonder what they thought they were.
Hi, Sarah.
You need to realize that most people are assholes, and that you really shouldn’t be feeling like this because of them.
There’s nothing wrong with you if you’re alone.
If you need someone to talk with, who won’t judge you, send me a mail at
random7@lavabit.com
I want you to stay. I want you to know that these aggressors in your life can make you mad to the point of breaking, but you have a stronger spirit then they could ever imagine. In high school and college I was constantly victimized by bullies, and I know now they targeted me out of jealousy. If you’re anything like me, which I think you are, you come from a semi-decent upbringing, and you have a very unique and individual personality. A bully is a person who copes with stress immaturely by being hostile and hurtful towards another person. In times of stress a bully targets what the bully perceives to be a much more fortunate person. If there are people who bully you, they believe bringing you down to their level will make them feel better. They’re not truly bad people; it’s just that you are wiser, more spirited, and certainly more mature than they are. Even if they look like responsible, or well-adjusted people, they probably have serious issues that are eating away at them on the inside. I want you to stay because I know you will be popular again, just like how I became popular during my junior year of college. If you hold on long enough it’s always the bully who is the first to break because everyone knows that aggressive behavior over time will only tear a person apart.
Good luck, and thank you for reaching out.
PS- Reaching out is also something I found very helpful. When I was going through a rough spot I reached out to a teacher I barely knew, but he was very nice and he cared enough to try and give me some advice on how to solve my problem.