If you really think about it life in general is pointless. Find an objective or goal to strive towards. It could be anything. Do you have any interests or hobbies? Something in particular that you enjoy? That’s always a start.
I too am devoid of ambition or anything worth living for.
If you ever need to just blow some steam or get something off your chest just holler. 🙂
I feel exactly the same… I have no reason to live, no family of my own…. And my XGF actually slept with some other dude and had a kid after she left me, and now she has left him (he was abusing her) I cant go back to her… I cant imagine making the kid think I am his daddy, until my XGF decides to dump my ass… And its not my kid, so why should I have to be responsible? He is cute but…. I’d rather be a father because I had my own kids, not someone else’s …
I would if I knew 100% for sure it would work and be permanent, but who could assure that? Not even her…
And I am in no way able to find another GF, I have social anxiety disorder and hide in my room… Even work doesn’t help me.
The point is what you want it to be. Life will always try to knock us down and it seems that all bad things happen at once. There is someone out there just like you looking for a friend too. Someone out there is looking for you to love because they want to be loved just as much as you. Sure maybe family can do without you but who said they wanted to. maybe just you being there as another person is what they need because maybe someone out there maybe even someone you know feels the same exact way. you might think you are being ignored but somone is noticing you just waiting for the right moment where you notice them too. 🙂 Stay strong hon because there is no specific point to life there are a bunch out there and you have to pick one!
hey! you caught my attention…so you must be important for us to take the time to write to you. Also don’t dwell to much on family they are funny folks, but i study them and came with this conclusion: many of them are ignorant, busy, and numb! and most of them are hurting just as we are, but they seem to hide it well.
So dont focus too much on the negative and search for the many things that are positive.
I have just one goal, the only thing I would ever need and nothing else would ever bring me down. Hobbies-I guess gaming, but getting bored of that… I just want a friend, my only true friend who lives in the UK to be with me, but there’s no money for him to get here.
Awww, I have social anxiety too, I just dont trust humans, they are just fickle and mostly evil and always judge me. lol But, there are angels like me if you find one, then your good to go love.
I guess true gamers understand like, the gaming world it’s like an escape from the harsh realities of life and idk, they can bond with one another well if they try.
Trust no one. I just befriended my closest friend… She knew more about me than my mother… She claimed my life was ‘a breeze’ compared to hers,…
Further more, she has joined the rest of the crowd that say “life is what you make of it” which I disagree STRONGLY…
If that were true, I wouldnt make my life so god damned shitty. I wouldnt make anyone’s life like mine. If I was to make my life, it would be perfect, happy, and not so damn fucking hard…
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Hey, we have something in common.
If you really think about it life in general is pointless. Find an objective or goal to strive towards. It could be anything. Do you have any interests or hobbies? Something in particular that you enjoy? That’s always a start.
I too am devoid of ambition or anything worth living for.
If you ever need to just blow some steam or get something off your chest just holler. 🙂
I feel exactly the same… I have no reason to live, no family of my own…. And my XGF actually slept with some other dude and had a kid after she left me, and now she has left him (he was abusing her) I cant go back to her… I cant imagine making the kid think I am his daddy, until my XGF decides to dump my ass… And its not my kid, so why should I have to be responsible? He is cute but…. I’d rather be a father because I had my own kids, not someone else’s …
I would if I knew 100% for sure it would work and be permanent, but who could assure that? Not even her…
And I am in no way able to find another GF, I have social anxiety disorder and hide in my room… Even work doesn’t help me.
The point is what you want it to be. Life will always try to knock us down and it seems that all bad things happen at once. There is someone out there just like you looking for a friend too. Someone out there is looking for you to love because they want to be loved just as much as you. Sure maybe family can do without you but who said they wanted to. maybe just you being there as another person is what they need because maybe someone out there maybe even someone you know feels the same exact way. you might think you are being ignored but somone is noticing you just waiting for the right moment where you notice them too. 🙂 Stay strong hon because there is no specific point to life there are a bunch out there and you have to pick one!
hey! you caught my attention…so you must be important for us to take the time to write to you. Also don’t dwell to much on family they are funny folks, but i study them and came with this conclusion: many of them are ignorant, busy, and numb! and most of them are hurting just as we are, but they seem to hide it well.
So dont focus too much on the negative and search for the many things that are positive.
I have just one goal, the only thing I would ever need and nothing else would ever bring me down. Hobbies-I guess gaming, but getting bored of that… I just want a friend, my only true friend who lives in the UK to be with me, but there’s no money for him to get here.
Awww, I have social anxiety too, I just dont trust humans, they are just fickle and mostly evil and always judge me. lol But, there are angels like me if you find one, then your good to go love.
Gaming with friends…that keeps me well…up too.
Thanks, there is just one person that sees me, but he lives miles away in the UK, not even close enough to touch…
Funny you say that, tell that to my selfish “gaming” cousin who I live with and don’t give a shit playing anything with me. LMAO
I guess true gamers understand like, the gaming world it’s like an escape from the harsh realities of life and idk, they can bond with one another well if they try.
Trust no one. I just befriended my closest friend… She knew more about me than my mother… She claimed my life was ‘a breeze’ compared to hers,…
Further more, she has joined the rest of the crowd that say “life is what you make of it” which I disagree STRONGLY…
If that were true, I wouldnt make my life so god damned shitty. I wouldnt make anyone’s life like mine. If I was to make my life, it would be perfect, happy, and not so damn fucking hard…
Yea, you cant control how you make it, other people have to grow the fuck up and help, but nobody cares… NOBODY!!!