How do you guys cope with a break up bc i dont know how. the girl ive been dating for 3 years and my former fiance broke up with me because she has been cheating on me… needless to say every shred of confidence i have is thrown out the window. Here i was thinking life is getting better, youve got a job and the girl of your dreams, but the girl of my dreams turned my life into a nightmare. idk why she cheated but i feel like im the one to blame, like maybe if i had done something  differently, if i didnt join the military and be away from her this wouldnt have happened. Alls i know is the thoughts are back, the little voice telling me to just do it and man up is back. i feel so lost, so alone, so empty, so heartbroken…
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Please do not blame yourself. I know this hurts a lot. I have been cheated on, too. But I tried to think about the kind of person I want to spend my life with and what qualities they would have. I realized that the person I wanted to be with I could trust inherently, to treat me well, to be faithful, to be honest, and to be there when the shit hits the fan…and we all know it does at times. Be good to yourself. You didn’t do anything wrong. A person who cheats is the person who has done the wrong thing. Be good to yourself. Treat yourself to some of your favorite food, watch a favorite movie, hang out with supportive friends. You will find the right person. In the meantime, this is about liking yourself and believing in your ethics. You can get through this. I know you can.