I give up. I’m done with having people pretend to care about me and then tell me they don’t when things get tough. I’m just going to go back to the quiet old me who doesn’t make a sound when things get bad. Sure the psychological side effects will get to me, but whatever, as long as everyone else is happy, it’s all good, right? Or maybe I should just get the gun and get this over and done with now and let everyone else be happy without being a burden… it’s all win win, so why not?
CPC
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It’s hard to find people who will stay with you even when times get hard, but they are out there. I don’t think anyone would be better off, or happy to know that you’ve passed on. Don’t give up, find those people.
Scar504’s got a point.
Anyone who expects you to stick with them when they’re going through a rough patch, but will not extend you the same courtesy, does not deserve your attention. Relationships are a two-way street. When things get a little uncomfortable, friends do not leave; even if they don’t quite get it. You shouldn’t have to hide yourself from people just because they can’t understand, or don’t want to understand you. I can assure you – there are people out there who will stick by you even in hard times. Please don’t give up.
I hear ya! Just going through my 3 failed relationship. Once again I am told it’s because they just don’t love me anymore. All I ever try to do is love them as best as I can yet they shut me out and hurt me. Really leaves one wondering why bother? I hope things work out better for you. Keep strong.