iam in a dark place and have been for a while. no one is here for me and i should have known that i have been alone my whole life my life is horrible i am 26 and went through 4 years of daily sexual abuse when i was young. when i told someone later in life my own mother excused what i went through by saying we were just kids and he didn’t know better. now he lives with my mother, its all supposed to be ok because he said he was sorry and said someone was doing it to him. my childhood other than that includes being beaten by my father forced to sleep outside with my mother.i watched my father try to kill my mother one night i was 6 he barely missed he shot about 2 inches from her head. my father was an alcholoic he believes that i am not his, he has told me several times hes not my dad told me who was. he will not give me a dna test of course, my mother deneys all of it the guy he says is my dad was shot in the head and died so i will never know. i have been through hell my whole life. i now suffer from adrenal cancer and a pituitary gland brain tumor. enough is enough i think. about 7 months ago i was talked into trying meth for the first time i only used twice when cps was at my door. june 28 has been the worst day of my life. they took my kids away and i go to classes and counseling for using drugs and everytime i have been tested i pass. now keep in mind my girls were my life i went everywhere with them and was never without them. i wouldnt let them go anywhere i wanted them by me so i could protect them. now, i get to see my babies once a week for a hour. and get to talk to them maybe twice a week. let me tell you the sad part about that, my own blood sister has them she prevents me from everything. for the first time i couldnt spend thanksgiving with my girls because i got into a arguement with my sisters husband then she showed those text to the caseworker and said i was unstable. so now of course the cps agency believes that i am. so i really have to watch what i say or do. feeling like this and not being able to tell anyone and get help is hard. i quit. i cant fight this miserable life anymore. no matter all the good i do, the negative stuff happens to me. if something bad is possible for me it will always be bad. so i learned to never think positive and i realize that when my mother says i love you it is meaningless. i have no one and i never have. so why fight anymore. thanks for listening
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I wish i could just reach through the space and hug you. Thank you for sharing, i know it must have been hard to lay it all out there. All i can say is i think you SHOULD keep fighting. I can tell you really love your girls. Keep fighting for them. Don’t give up on yourself
i want to say thank you for taking time and reading my story. its a terrible way to live right. you responding to me and saying positive things means alot to me no one has ever taken time out for me, and never to say a good thing. your gonna be the reason i wake up in the morning. i had already made up my mind that today was my last. i let my father know how i felt.told him to remember when he is looking down at me at my funeral i asked him for help as usual he didn’t care. i wrote my goodbye letter. before i done it something told me to check on my post. i then seen your comment i will save that and keep it. now i can not promise this good feeling i have right now will last i hope it doesnt go away thank you from every part of me, for letting me feel good about things. its been along time since i have felt good. i hope this last and stays with me. i want you to know that because of you, and i mean you alone my girls will have their mother for another day. who knows maybe if i call them tomorrow i can talk to my babies, that would be great. i want to cry thinking about it. please keep in touch with me, i would like to keep up with the person who possibly changed my life , and for once its heading down the right road from the begining. i oweyou my life. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR KIND WORDSAND MEANINGFUL INSIGHT ABOUT MY SITUATION. if you ever need anything please let me know i would be glad to offer my assistance. not trying to brag but when it comes to money i’m well off. so don’t hestiant to ask if you need help. next time you have time to write me again if you ever do, tell me about you and your life. also about your family. i will always remember this. you are my angel from god sent to me to protect me good night with all my love amber 26 yrs old and counting (now for a purpose it seems)
I’m almost in tears…. dude, keep fighting. If there seems to be no way out, come on here, and the community here will do all they can. Stay strong, and fight for life. Maybe someday you will be able to see your girls, and keep them that time.
Aw sweetie, I’m so glad my words had an effect. You don’t owe me anything. I was happy to help. Honestly, when i woke up and saw this message you cannot believe how happy i was. It made my day, honest to God. I’m here for you anytime you need to talk. All my love <3