I want to know what do you do when your being bullied.
First Step:
Tell someone. Right or wrong? Thats the advice anyone would give you. Porblem shared is a problem halfed all that yeah?
So… Who do you tell?:
Your parents.
There we go!! Step one and I can’t even get that far. Coz nobody….NOBODY…..in these bullying preventions courses, bullying what to do if you’re a victim, even bullying week, noody EVER tells you what to do, when your family, is the one bullying you. Well more precise, when one of your parents, bullys you, and your family, and the rest of your family has decided that its easier to be on the bully’s side than mine. That leaves me alone. What can I do when my own FAMILY, IS BULLYING ME???? Who do I talk to ? My friends have their own family problems, divorced parents, living with a relative coz they were taken away from their parents, immature parents who leave them babysitting 24 7 while they party. My problems wound like nothing in comparison right? So its not like I can talk to them. So who do I tell to fix this?? After 5 years, of it gradually and drastically getting worse. I can’t take it any longer. I need an answer. Someone, anyone, please give it to me
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A social worker. Even the police if you have to. Bullying is not acceptable, they need to understand that. If it were me and I was still a minor, I’d go ask for help. From the police, from anyone, I’d ask them to find me someone else who could help me, if they can’t.
Worst/best case scenario, you will be taken away from your family. How do you feel about that?
I want to go away, I’ve gone over everyone that I possibly could go to stay with. But everyone says the same thing about going and telling someone, but I just can’t bring myself to do it. Im scared of telling, I don’t know why, maybe coz they might not take me seriously I don’t know.
If it’s so bad that you need intervention contact social services or the police like sinine suggested. If you think you can manage to endure it contact a counselor or therapist and work on some coping strategies for dealing with your ABUSE.
thanks
Oh wow. I am old and I still have this problem. Except when I lived at home, the abuse by my siblings and mother were fucking unreal.
To this DAY they are still clusterfuckers who have no idea how to listen or be kind to me.
Go to your school and meet with your counselor. Go to the PD and tell them you are afraid to be there but you need to speak with an officer in confidence. They WILL HELP YOU.
What about church? Priest? Nun?
ANYONE other than your family right now.