This reminds me of something my mom said once that she’d probably be mummified before anyone found her. I was so surprised that she would think that being that I care about her so much. It makes me wonder if people realize how much more people care then we might think “might” is the key word here. There is always that possibility. Someone cares.
When you’re down, barely anyone cares. Most people would rather not even know. So I don’t tell anyone. People love you when they need you, and forget you exist when you need them back.
I also have had the opposite though where they dont want you when you dont need them and yes there are people who want to know and people who dont. For example my mother never seemed to like us kids venting to her. What a shame. I know now it’s bcuz it hurt her to see her children hurt. Wrong way to deal with that though.
And yes I agree sometimes it feels like nobody cares when you’re down. I do know one person though that loves it when I’m down. Not sure how I like that but she’s always there for me. Probably unhealthy
Yeah. You might have heard it said before that the amount of true friends that most people will have in lufe you’ll be able to count on just one hand. So if you have 5 fingers on one hand then that’s about 5 true friends. Pretty crappy deal I’d say.
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I feel like it would be weeks even for those people.
This reminds me of something my mom said once that she’d probably be mummified before anyone found her. I was so surprised that she would think that being that I care about her so much. It makes me wonder if people realize how much more people care then we might think “might” is the key word here. There is always that possibility. Someone cares.
When you’re down, barely anyone cares. Most people would rather not even know. So I don’t tell anyone. People love you when they need you, and forget you exist when you need them back.
I also have had the opposite though where they dont want you when you dont need them and yes there are people who want to know and people who dont. For example my mother never seemed to like us kids venting to her. What a shame. I know now it’s bcuz it hurt her to see her children hurt. Wrong way to deal with that though.
And yes I agree sometimes it feels like nobody cares when you’re down. I do know one person though that loves it when I’m down. Not sure how I like that but she’s always there for me. Probably unhealthy
I guess it’s good in a way. It helps you separate real friends from posers. Supposedly, anyway. I doubt it’s that easy.
Yeah. You might have heard it said before that the amount of true friends that most people will have in lufe you’ll be able to count on just one hand. So if you have 5 fingers on one hand then that’s about 5 true friends. Pretty crappy deal I’d say.
I meant life, not lufe! Lol
Lol yeah, I thought that’s what you meant. It’s kind of depressing to think about though. Five real friends out of hundreds of posers.
I guess it’s how you look at it. 5 real friends out of a hundred posers.