The guy i’ve been in love with for the past year is my everything.. but recently he completely changed!! hes continuously hurt me over and over again. Then recently.. i attempted to kill myself and he texted my sister saying this ” ahaha well you should really come out!! come on i’ll help make sure you have a good time, your sisters saying she’s gonna kill herself can u call her? ugh such a buzz kill! dont tell her i said that” and then continues on to beg my sister who is his exact age to come out to eden with him and his friends. Making a joke of my “fake bullshit” what am i supposed to think or do? i’m so madly in love with him! :'( fuck he’s been flirting with strippers and taking there fb names and messaging them non stop and hiding and lying to it about me. idk what to do im so in love with him and it sucks! :'(
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Generally most people would tell you you deserve better or you should leave him, but i have been in the same situations before. and its not that easy, but eventually if there is no change you’ll get fed up anyway and do just that. but right now your in a battle between your heart and your head, and as i said that’s not easy. apparently he doesn’t care about you, and i would suggest you talk to him about it, but maybe you’ll only end up getting hurt. what were some of the reasons he fell for you? maybe if you find that out you can redraw his attention towards you, show him what it is that he fell for in the first place, show him that he would seriously be losing something if he left you.
and are you two sexually active? if not dont read below.
( if you are you shouldn’t put out right away, you should make him work for it, spice up the love life by making him beg 😉 throw some forplay in, make it worth it. )