Let’s say that you’re going to have a party. You’ve planned it out, know exactly how it’ll go. You’re excited; this is going to be the most perfect party that there ever was.
Then, the guests arrive. As soon as they arrive, they begin criticizing and demeaning their surroundings; the same surroundings you took so much time preparing and setting up for your perfect party. They don’t like the booze, the food you’ve provided, they disparage the music because half of the guests hate the genre you’re playing, and the other half just don’t care. Some of your guests think your sense of style is severely questionable. They condescend you for your taste in furniture.
Nothing is going how you envisioned.
Nobody is applauding you for working so hard to make this party happen.
Everyone leaves the party early.
Is it your guests’ fault, or your own?
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Both. Your fault for not knowing your guest well enough to know what they’d enjoy or be okay with and have fun with. Also it would be their fault for not being understanding guest and making an effort. You go ito a party and get all bitchy about how nothings right and don’t try to make the best of the situation then you are quite sad. Lifes not gonna make everything perfect for you to enjoy you have to make lemons when life hands you lemonade!!!