The Truth

Am I the only one who thinks that when someone tells you to be strong or says some sob story about how you need to live is just a line of absolute bull? Because saying the same things someone else can say to you isn’t going to mean anything to me. I want a “I know it’s hard and I know  I don’t understand it but I’m here to listen and I know you aren’t okay, but that’s okay because sometimes were all not okay….” type of conversation not a “You can do this you are strong, get help, I need you, you’ll be fine, blah blah blah.” type of story. I know this might not make any sense…. and maybe I’m the only one…. but having someone realize I can’t always be strong, and that I’m actually not okay…. might just be my step to recovering…..