Okay so, my best friend (let’s say her name is Anne). So Anne and I are best friend we tell each other all our secrets and we  always hang out, she truly is my best friend. Well one day Anne was feeling really down and she asked me to give her some guys that should could talk to so I Did. At the time I had a huge crush on this guy (let’s say his name is drew). So drew was the best he was sweet and kind and he said he had feelings for me.  I thought he could make Anne feel better. So I told him to talk to her. I’ve know drew for almost a year now and he talks to Anne for a week and now they’re dating. And Anne knew I had the biggest crush on him. I can’t even talk to them without getting mad. And drew he just tries to make me mad. It really pisses me off. I don’t know what to do about them.. Just makes me mad cuz now I lost my best friend and my crush.
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Maybe she felt she needed to think about herself right now.
You said it yourself, she’s really down. Maybe being with this guy Drew is one of the few things that could help.
A year is a pretty long time, I get that, but did you make it clear to him that you liked him back? I mean, you don’t exactly tell someone you like them and then not ask them out. Unless of course, you didn’t reciprocate those feelings back to him…
Try looking at it from her perspective. I’m sure she didn’t mean for it to hurt you.
He even said he wouldn’t flirt with Anne because we liked each other alot
Have you asked him why he did this?
Have you asked either of them?
Maybe something changed?
noonoo your questions are only making it worse. fuck their side. sometimes people just do mean shit out of their own selfish needs. it sounds like this guy has been giving her attitude about it and treating her like shit after the fact that he did this. forget’em both. grieve and shake these feelings off and try your best to movie forward.
It’s simple “lilpepper”.. “Killswitch” is right. Shake it off. Don’t start loosing self esteem cuz a boy’s hormones can’t be controlled. One day you’ll meet a real gentlemen and he will prove these relationships were always meant to be temporary. So try to have fun dating different boys while you still have your youth. Or just take a break for awhile. But don’t let it get you down and don’t let it be all you think about.
And “noonoo12″… What can I say!? It really seems like your struggling for answers yourself. Hope your headaches are gone.
@lilpepper803
Let me show you a different side.
He’s a teenage boy. Chances are, he was just looking for the quickest way to bust a nut.
For the “quickest way,” one need not look further than the ends of his arms. He was instead, most likely looking for the most readily accessible vagina.
I’ll just add to that:
hormonal teens are not to be trusted. (and that actually applies well into adulthood)