a ruby may see a diamond and envy the diamond and try to be like the diamond but it can never really accomplish that….because well….its a ruby…..I think that’s how people are…..some of us are rubies ….sapphires…..onyx…..emeralds…..etc…..yet we all envy the people that are “diamonds” and want to be like them…..We never can because we just can’t …we don’t have what they have that enable them to be diamonds…..so I guess we just try to coincide with them as long as we can