Men don’t deserve my love…

1. nothing wrong with wanting sex
2. females perpetuate the requirement of “love” to access sex
3. you’re apparently attracted to men who displease you in such a way… and so you’ve decided to assume that all men are bad, based on your limited sample?

Most men likely expect females to play games with their emotions, and make “the game” rules require them “feign” affection, in order to access their desired goals. They expect this because it is often true. Therefore, the only choice is to either play the game the only way it can be played, or choose not to pursue, and most guys will not simply choose not to pursue, because sex, if done right, is awesome. So really, you shouldn’t blame them for doing what you make necessary to get what they want. Most people are willing to do whatever it takes to enjoy their lives, including embellishing their attraction to someone’s personality, in order to be allowed to gain the most mutually pleasurable experiences of their body.

On one hand, it’s incredibly sexist and quite ridiculous to say that no man deserves the privilege of your love… but on the other, what is so great about YOUR love, that any man should want it? What is so special about you, that must first be “deserved,” by any man, prior to being allowed the privilege of it?

I wonder if it has anything to do with a correlation between increased beauty and decreased ability to cope with the inherent ugliness of the real world.

Here’s a thought:

There are various websites which exist to facilitate the viewing of, and compensation for, certain exhibitionist-type activities, while also acting as a barrier to predictably unwanted contact with strangers.

@PainNlife:

While one might lead to the other, the other doesn’t necessarily lead to the one.

I have repeatedly observed that a higher degree of visual/physical appeal, tends to lead to having more “hope,” elevated “expectations,” and thus, “further to fall,” upon being met with the often predictable disappointments frequently encountered in typical life. Falling further, and more often, hurts more, and causes more damage. This clearly can lead to erosion of coping abilities.

But on the other hand, some people who are less appealing to others, never really even develop that hope and expectation, and so despite having less “distance” to fall, they spend much of their lives in underdeveloped coping realm, and don’t really have any tangible motivation to work harder than pretty people have to work, to achieve anything.

Obviously there are exceptions.

One might expect that “anyone with half a brain,” would realize the artificiality of this false ascription of positive characteristics based entirely upon superficial physical traits, and then question it, and consider the alternatives; those who are less likely to be automatically trusted for no reason other than being “pretty,” are actually far more likely to develop actual character, and go out of their own way to gain favor with others. But that doesn’t mean we should just automatically trust “ugly” people, due to that same sense of desperation in gaining favor with others. The harder the challenge, the more likely that subversion of the rules will occur.