whats the point in hurting us more, you wont be helping us if you make us cry on here if you dont let us get our friendly advice your just making it worse.
no im not putting the blame on you but the thing is the dissing needs to stop because its not what people need its just bullying.
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i agree..
People dont understand why we cut that’s why most ppl are ignorant enough to diss us after all the emotional pain they cause Us
exactly my point people need to know if they want us to stop they they would give us advice not dis us its hurtful and just makes us cut more.
I’ve stopped caring. I think, that’s like… the point, you know? You just stop caring… isn’t that what suicide is after all?
Yeah ur right cutterlover
Stop cutting. That’s my friendly advice.
But i’ve been ’round these parts long enough to know, you’re not going to just stop cutting just because people advise you not to cut. You’re going to do whatever you want to do anyway, which will include continued cutting, until you decide for yourselves that you should stop.
If everything that upsets you in life becomes an excuse for you to cut again, then you’ll need to toughen up, thicken your skin, and stop cutting every time something unpleasant happens. If you insist on waiting until all unpleasantness ceases, you’ll never stop cutting. Because that’s your chosen coping method. And it’s your choice to do so, not anyone else making you.
Plus, if it really helps you, then why would you want anyone to want you to stop doing something that actually helps you? Or is it just that you’re being self-destructive because you don’t know a better way to get attention?
The blade is only in your hand, and the emotions only come from your own mind. It is your own responsibility to control all parts of yourself, not that of anyone else.
If and when you really want to stop, you will. Cutting is just the wrong way to deal with life’s challenges. At some point you’ll realize you are the one in control. It’s your blade, your skin, your scars, your guilt, your shame.
I get the impression that some people are “proud” of cutting, as they display their actions of doing it and thoughts/emotions about it often. I don’t understand that mentality. Personally, in the past, cutting was a very personal ritual that I preferred to keep as covert as possible. There’s nothing good about cutting that the world needs to hear about, it’s a personal decision that you make and yours alone. You don’t post every time you pop some prescription pills, which is supposed to have similar effects as a coping skill. Why? Because it’s not as dramatic. You don’t post about and every time you shoot up drugs, why? Because it’s something that’s done in private. Cutting isn’t any different. Now I’m not saying you shouldn’t speak about it at all, but flashing it every opportunity you get makes it lose its intended reactional effect and just makes you come off desperate for attention.