Good morning everyone 🙂 I hope you have a wonderful day. No negative attitudes today please. You prob wont listen to me but whatever. Atleast try :/ xx
….Everyone is allowed to post here….and you are free to do as you please…but you need to be realistic… I’ve read all of your post and I don’t think you are realistic nor sincere….one minute you are all “down in the dumps” and the next you have “happiness to give away”….like which is it?….either you are depressed or you aren’t….I think you are confused about what depression is and you are probably just momentarily sad about something…and it is rather annoying to feel like I’m being mocked….Happy people do not commit suicide…
You are 16 so I don’t expect you to know what “life” is actually like….However please realize you are in the “twilight zone” right now….what you are experiencing isn’t the real word that you will live the bulk of your life in….
Now I have no problem with you being positive and trying to help people but please be realistic… Unrealistic optimism is detrimental and not really helpful to people here…
Lol reality for everyone is different. You know nothing about me and dont tell me whats right and whats wrong. The whole point in all this is to show im always sad but im capable of feeling happy once in a while. People like you disgust me. Stop acting like you know everything. Maybe the reason youre depressed is cause you act like that. Im not usually mean but seriously f off. This site is for people who are sad and are for people to discuss and realize they’re not alone. Not for judgmental, inconsiderate individuals. Just stop. Let me do what I want. Keep your version of reality away from me.
@sethsm…I’m not trying to throw my “reality” on anybody …in fact that is my problem with you….is that you don’t have an accurate view of what reality really is…and no reality isn’t different for everyone there is only one reality; We simply each have our own perception of it, shaped by personal experience, knowledge, intuition, what we’ve been taught… Nobody has or will ever have a full perception of reality, but we all live in the same world.
You contradict yourself and you don’t even realize it… “I’m ALWAYS sad but im capable of feeling happy once in a while” then….by definition you aren’t “always” sad….depression leaves no room for happiness….which is why I correctly stated you aren’t depressed but rather momentarily sad….
I don’t think anybody anywhere was ever depressed because they “acted like they knew everything” … I never said I did but I do possess common sense…
You can do as you please which I said before I even said anything else… I’m not demanding you do or not do anything… I just simply shared my opinion based on the comments and post you have made here….
Awesome. Well unlike you im here to help people. Taking everything literally is a waste of time. So instead of acting like a dick and sitting on this site, do something. No wonder youre getting no where. Just shut up. Youre supposed to be here to share how you feel. Not make people feel like shit. Its so bad youre affecting yourself. Dont talk to me 🙂
Literally or figuratively had nothing to do with what you said…I just pointed out your contradiction…
I don’t care about your insults I am not trying to disrespect you so I don’t engage in that type of behavior I’m just giving you reality…
You’re correct…This site is for sharing how you feel….not for unrealistic optimism and answers to math questions… What did I say to make you “feel like shit”?
Nothing.
I’m just trying to help you to understand why unrealistic optimism is detrimental and counterproductive here…
Pointing out my contradiction? Does that really matter? Lol the whole point of it is: if you know what you say can upset people, dont do it. The last time I checked, the theme on this site is suicide. Just stop
Yes it does matter when you are trying to justify your actions using a contradictory statement…. and sadly I don’t operate under the political correctness bullshit…. I operate under if what I say is false or not….not whether it will hurt some feelings…. I don’t intentionally say things to upset people but if it is a repercussion of truth then so be it…. I never said anything to you or anybody on here to intentionally make them upset…if the truth makes them upset….is that my fault?
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….Everyone is allowed to post here….and you are free to do as you please…but you need to be realistic… I’ve read all of your post and I don’t think you are realistic nor sincere….one minute you are all “down in the dumps” and the next you have “happiness to give away”….like which is it?….either you are depressed or you aren’t….I think you are confused about what depression is and you are probably just momentarily sad about something…and it is rather annoying to feel like I’m being mocked….Happy people do not commit suicide…
You are 16 so I don’t expect you to know what “life” is actually like….However please realize you are in the “twilight zone” right now….what you are experiencing isn’t the real word that you will live the bulk of your life in….
Now I have no problem with you being positive and trying to help people but please be realistic… Unrealistic optimism is detrimental and not really helpful to people here…
Lol reality for everyone is different. You know nothing about me and dont tell me whats right and whats wrong. The whole point in all this is to show im always sad but im capable of feeling happy once in a while. People like you disgust me. Stop acting like you know everything. Maybe the reason youre depressed is cause you act like that. Im not usually mean but seriously f off. This site is for people who are sad and are for people to discuss and realize they’re not alone. Not for judgmental, inconsiderate individuals. Just stop. Let me do what I want. Keep your version of reality away from me.
@sethsm…I’m not trying to throw my “reality” on anybody …in fact that is my problem with you….is that you don’t have an accurate view of what reality really is…and no reality isn’t different for everyone there is only one reality; We simply each have our own perception of it, shaped by personal experience, knowledge, intuition, what we’ve been taught… Nobody has or will ever have a full perception of reality, but we all live in the same world.
You contradict yourself and you don’t even realize it… “I’m ALWAYS sad but im capable of feeling happy once in a while” then….by definition you aren’t “always” sad….depression leaves no room for happiness….which is why I correctly stated you aren’t depressed but rather momentarily sad….
I don’t think anybody anywhere was ever depressed because they “acted like they knew everything” … I never said I did but I do possess common sense…
You can do as you please which I said before I even said anything else… I’m not demanding you do or not do anything… I just simply shared my opinion based on the comments and post you have made here….
Awesome. Well unlike you im here to help people. Taking everything literally is a waste of time. So instead of acting like a dick and sitting on this site, do something. No wonder youre getting no where. Just shut up. Youre supposed to be here to share how you feel. Not make people feel like shit. Its so bad youre affecting yourself. Dont talk to me 🙂
Literally or figuratively had nothing to do with what you said…I just pointed out your contradiction…
I don’t care about your insults I am not trying to disrespect you so I don’t engage in that type of behavior I’m just giving you reality…
You’re correct…This site is for sharing how you feel….not for unrealistic optimism and answers to math questions… What did I say to make you “feel like shit”?
Nothing.
I’m just trying to help you to understand why unrealistic optimism is detrimental and counterproductive here…
Pointing out my contradiction? Does that really matter? Lol the whole point of it is: if you know what you say can upset people, dont do it. The last time I checked, the theme on this site is suicide. Just stop
Yes it does matter when you are trying to justify your actions using a contradictory statement…. and sadly I don’t operate under the political correctness bullshit…. I operate under if what I say is false or not….not whether it will hurt some feelings…. I don’t intentionally say things to upset people but if it is a repercussion of truth then so be it…. I never said anything to you or anybody on here to intentionally make them upset…if the truth makes them upset….is that my fault?
sethsn,
well it’s nice to see you positive here and now. Maybe it will last. Maybe not. But living in moment. Hope you had a nice day at school.
Thank you Resu. 🙂 that means a lot.