why do people make such a big deal of self-harmers if they dont want to cut then so be it but others want to because the emotional pain gets too much for them. What is so wrong with being a a cutter some dont want to be a self harmer but it is so hard to stop the pain relif . so tell me something if they want to cut or kill themselves what is so wrong with just allowing them to do it.
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@ cutterlover dont think there is anything wrong about cutters cutting it is just hard for those who dont do it to grasp cant say i understand myself i dont mind blood or pain it just seems so messy which is kind of hypocritical considering i parked up in front of a train last week unfortunately damn thing was going to slow so i just ended up with broken bones point is that whatever you decide as long as its your choice its ok some people have religion you have cutting
Yes! I completely agree, what gives people the right to dictate what another person does to their own body? It’s absolutely no one else’s business. How a person treats them self is a very personal gesture and is a reflection of a person’s relationship with themselves, it involves no one else. It’s those who try to turn it into their business I find are the most selfish. I’ve had repercussions from the psychiatric system because of the choices I’ve made on how I treat myself, it was unnecessary, degrading and infuriating. As long as they do not harm others, it is the person’s responsibility to keep themselves safe and theirs alone. The idea that it’s another person’s “duty” to keep a person from harming themselves (especially via cutting) disgusts and pisses me off deeply.
Some people just want you to take care of yourself! 🙂 but in my opinion, go right ahead! Don’t forget to sterilize!
Maybe one day life will present a new way to take control of the anger, so that you may feel more free in this life.
honestly – i think it is a MONEY thing.
sorry, but some simple shallow cuts is NOT a big deal. Or head-banging / punching is NOT “harm”.
But, shrinks get paid to make it a big deal. And they can label it is parasuicidal and have you locked-up against your will. So, be careful who you admit that stuff to.