I.. I did something so bad… I told the whole truth last night, I told him I did it for his attention just so that he will be more attentive of me. But it all went wrong… I didn’t expect this. No…. We’re still together now.. But it’s my turn to take the wheel. It is my turn to be the one who takes the lead. He’s not going to treat me like what he did before. He’s not going to love me as much. He’s not going to put all his effort into this r/s anymore. He’s not going to trust me anymore and in fact I think he hates me so much right now although he claims he still loves me… He’s not going to treat me like how we were…. What should I do now?…. Do I have to continue this relationship and try and solve and carry everything?…. Or do I go to a point where both of us goes our separate ways?.. I think he can handle it but I can’t.
I feel like suiciding right now. I haven’t been eating a proper meal. I haven’t been eating much. I’ve been crying every night before I go to bed and every morning when I woke up. Is this reality or am I dreaming? I’ve created such a big mess and I’ve dug a grave for myself. What do I do now? What do I do now? I just feel like locking myself in my room until I can’t take it and eventually commit suicide. But if I commit suicide, I think he would laugh. He must be laughing there and telling to everyone that I’m faking my death. That I wanted attention. But no… I really just want to die right now I feel like I have nothing. That the past of me and him is all gone. It’s all dead. I don’t know…. Should I just end my life?… I can’t take it…
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If he loves you, he’ll understand and be there for you. He’ll want you to know that you can trust him, and you can depend on him. He’ll hold you and tell you this. And most of all, he’ll feel your pain. I’ve been in his shoes. I know exactly how he should feel.
I thjnk it was really brave and mature of you to tell him. I think you must love him very much to admit that to him. And I think he loves you to, because if he didnt it would have been his perfect ‘get out of jail free’ card. If anything he should trust you more because you were honest with him. It sounds like you are working yourself up over nothing, based on random conjecture about what he’s thinking. Just take things as they are – everyone’s cool. You have a second chance. Make it work