Why do some people have this need to make others feel wrong about anything they say? And make them feel guilty a lot? And I don’t mean as in give the opinion an tht is it, I mean u can say anything that is your own opinion and they want to find ways to prove you wrong everyday. You can say ur opinion about something and they will come back amonth later an say well I think you were wrong because of this even if they have a ridiculous reason for it. I mean you cant give your opinion about anything without them trying to prove you wrong an on top of that make u feel guilty a lot? Its as if they get off trying to find ways or telling you your wrong about everything!
On top of that this person claims I have some victim mentality but I do accept responsibility and say im sorry if I did something I felt was wrong.. like yelling or getting angry and say something I don’t mean and I feel guilty for everything even things I shouldnt. But this person can actually hit me then claim its all my fault because I said this or that accepting no responsibility  in what they did–to me it seems as if this person actually has this ‘victim mentality’  I know what im saying here sounds silly prob compared to other peoples problems but its seriously drivng me crazy sometimes ..even today they had to tell me im WRONG for over stupid things! Like I threw a sock under the bed the dog chewed up an when the dog was looking under the bed I said “hey are you looking for the sock” then the person I live with says” he is just wanting in the bed” even tho the dog was not tryin to get in the bed. I mean yes it does sound silly but it is driving me crazy he does this all the time! To point I feel insane an don’t trust what I say or do anymore.
just discovered why I feel crazy all the time IÂ live with “a crazy maker”
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I know that I’m in not in a position to give advice I can’t even help myself. If that person seems wrong to you ok then let them thats just who they are. Be the bigger person shrug off these things they say and then maybe they won’t do it because your no longer reacting to it. If you say and do nothing in response to their actions and words then maybe that person will be able to realize what their wrongs are. But what do i know right? just my thoughts as an outsider hope they may have helped
Believe me I try to ignore it over an over it still hurts and makes you feel crazy to the point you cant even tell what is real anymore an you doubt urself constantly
So I just discovered there really is a such thing as a crazy maker abuser that makes you doubt urself and what is real.. make you feel like your insane lol
Thanks for your advice =) I do think its good advice
yeah I know it isn’t easy I have people like that in my life maybe not in the same exact way but i get how it feels. The best solution is to shrug it off and its easier said then done. If you care about the person and want them in your life then its gonna be a challenge. I’m assuming that you have tried to tell them how they make you feel when the act this way and it didn’t help so this best thing to do is master the art of shrugging it off. If you don’t care for them then when you get a chance remove them from your life.