If you mean a bucket list activity I honestly cannot think of one. If I have one choice, it is to die without any fear, anger or hate in my heart. When my personal identity permanently dissolves I want to be at peace with dying.
Surely this isn’t a “wide-open anything,” because that leaves room for all sorts of impossible things that can’t ever happen.
My first thought, though, was that i’d want to torture a specific person for an absurdly long time, and force them to watch the deaths of each of their family members. I really, /really/ hate that specific person, and that person totally deserves such hellish horrors.
My second thought, was something like “but why stop there?” Maybe my “anything” would be to cause the swift extinction of humanity. Imagine a future earth, abandoned skyscrapers wrapped in 100’s of years worth of unimpeded vine-growth, and wildlife cohabiting as they please.
My most realistic answer, though, would probably be “heroin.” If i’m dead i can’t become a junkie. I’ve always wondered how heroin feels; it must be “amazing.”
My best question-disrupting answer would be: “everything i ever wanted to do.” If only i could just… do everything i’ve ever wanted to do… maybe then i would think life is worth living.
There’s lots of stuff i want(ed) to do before i die. But almost all of what i want(ed) to do, was impossible for me. From what i CAN still do, there really isn’t much else i want.
I suppose i could get an embarrassing and difficult job i don’t want, and work hard most of my waking life, for not enough money to do anything worth all that endurance and exertion… but i don’t really want to do that. I think i’ll pass.
At this point, i’m just procrastinating; i should be going through my belongings and discarding all non-essentials, and making preparations. But there are some rather daunting tasks to complete, and i’m not all that interested in completing them.
I plan to listen to nostalgic music and reminisce all the things that could have been, perhaps the guilt and sorrow of it all will be enough to drive me over the edge without fear.
Ahh man if anything like realistic or not I would drive a Dinan trubo charged Alpine White 2011 BMW M3 competition package on the Autobahn at like 170+ mph… lol.
@clevername, dont overthink it by bringing the restrictions of life into your choices. (Even though you already made them) The point is before your death what would you want to do? Whether you feel it’s impossible or not.
Having a particular person saying to me face-to-face, “it’s okay… I’ll meet you on the other side” (even though I’m not implying that I know or can tell for sure what is there beyond death, nor am trying to imply Heaven or Hell; maybe there is no such thing as “the other side”, but I could care less.) while listening to some random post-rock song (specifically This Will Destroy You) and just let myself literally be destroyed, seamlessly.
I know it probably sounds ridiculous, but it’s just comforting for me to know that I left this world having someone who understand why I did what I did, and I get to meet that someone in person at least before I die.
Wow…some people here have such generous wishes…and I just wished there would be more like them because everyone else is just so selfish these days 🙁
I would give up everything I have/had (donate my clothes, money, give away all my things, give up all possessions) and spend some few moments with my dear ones, and reassure them that they needn’t worry about me, and then listen to my favourite music before leaving for my abode/utopia 🙂
Anything? I would go back in time and re-live one of 2 perfect days i can remember… if i could relive both that would be awesome. Then i would die happily
Actually two things: Start a cattery and a botanical garden with orchids. But then I’m not sure if I’d care so much for the idea of dying. I probably wouldn’t even post here anymore because I’d be too busy with plant-and-feline-related tasks.
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If you mean a bucket list activity I honestly cannot think of one. If I have one choice, it is to die without any fear, anger or hate in my heart. When my personal identity permanently dissolves I want to be at peace with dying.
what are the constraints on “anything?”
Surely this isn’t a “wide-open anything,” because that leaves room for all sorts of impossible things that can’t ever happen.
My first thought, though, was that i’d want to torture a specific person for an absurdly long time, and force them to watch the deaths of each of their family members. I really, /really/ hate that specific person, and that person totally deserves such hellish horrors.
My second thought, was something like “but why stop there?” Maybe my “anything” would be to cause the swift extinction of humanity. Imagine a future earth, abandoned skyscrapers wrapped in 100’s of years worth of unimpeded vine-growth, and wildlife cohabiting as they please.
My most realistic answer, though, would probably be “heroin.” If i’m dead i can’t become a junkie. I’ve always wondered how heroin feels; it must be “amazing.”
My best question-disrupting answer would be: “everything i ever wanted to do.” If only i could just… do everything i’ve ever wanted to do… maybe then i would think life is worth living.
Write something that even remotely resembles a book.
I think the better question might be:
What CAN you do, before you die?
And of that, is there anything you want?
There’s lots of stuff i want(ed) to do before i die. But almost all of what i want(ed) to do, was impossible for me. From what i CAN still do, there really isn’t much else i want.
I suppose i could get an embarrassing and difficult job i don’t want, and work hard most of my waking life, for not enough money to do anything worth all that endurance and exertion… but i don’t really want to do that. I think i’ll pass.
At this point, i’m just procrastinating; i should be going through my belongings and discarding all non-essentials, and making preparations. But there are some rather daunting tasks to complete, and i’m not all that interested in completing them.
I plan to listen to nostalgic music and reminisce all the things that could have been, perhaps the guilt and sorrow of it all will be enough to drive me over the edge without fear.
Make sure the few that i care about understand why i did it. And to leave enough behind to help
i wanna be a good person before i die
Real depression means you don’t feel there is anything worth doing or being in need of any longer, before you die.
And that might include apathy in relation to the tasks involved in pro-actively engineering a suicide.
Ahh man if anything like realistic or not I would drive a Dinan trubo charged Alpine White 2011 BMW M3 competition package on the Autobahn at like 170+ mph… lol.
I’d like to know what it’s like to be loved romantically by another person before I died.
Smoke every drug ever…
Well if I could do ANYTHING, I guess I wouldn’t kill myself. The point is I can do NOTHING, that is why I choose to die.
@clevername, dont overthink it by bringing the restrictions of life into your choices. (Even though you already made them) The point is before your death what would you want to do? Whether you feel it’s impossible or not.
Do a psychedelic drug… Maybe give my Christmas money to someone it’d help. xD
Then I’d live forever happy before dying ;P.
Having a particular person saying to me face-to-face, “it’s okay… I’ll meet you on the other side” (even though I’m not implying that I know or can tell for sure what is there beyond death, nor am trying to imply Heaven or Hell; maybe there is no such thing as “the other side”, but I could care less.) while listening to some random post-rock song (specifically This Will Destroy You) and just let myself literally be destroyed, seamlessly.
I know it probably sounds ridiculous, but it’s just comforting for me to know that I left this world having someone who understand why I did what I did, and I get to meet that someone in person at least before I die.
Wow…some people here have such generous wishes…and I just wished there would be more like them because everyone else is just so selfish these days 🙁
I would give up everything I have/had (donate my clothes, money, give away all my things, give up all possessions) and spend some few moments with my dear ones, and reassure them that they needn’t worry about me, and then listen to my favourite music before leaving for my abode/utopia 🙂
Anything? I would go back in time and re-live one of 2 perfect days i can remember… if i could relive both that would be awesome. Then i would die happily
sail across the world
Actually two things: Start a cattery and a botanical garden with orchids. But then I’m not sure if I’d care so much for the idea of dying. I probably wouldn’t even post here anymore because I’d be too busy with plant-and-feline-related tasks.