i decided to trust someone i know with what i feel, and now i don’t know if that was right. i don’t want her to tell anybody, she says she won’t but I’m still doubting. and I’m pretty sure she’s going to pity me from now on. do you think it was right to tell her..?
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Trust your gut. Sounds like you already figured it out.
yeah but i did it, and now I’m regretting it because i know you can’t trust people, and i don’t know why i did.
It’s an impulsive act that people do when then are reaching out. Not the worst thing in the world.
do you think she will keep her promise?
How in the hell would IMPROVE know? People break promises all the time. What did you tell her? If you’re going to hurt yourself she probably will. Or if she’s a gossip queen, she’ll probably tell all kinds of people.
The problem with telling people things, they love to make conversation. So when you have interesting topics, it gets spread around…it’s very hard to find people that will keep a secret.
sorry… no. i trust her, because i know she went through the same thing too. ah oh well xD it’ll be fine.
All that worry for nothing. Be sure to let her know it means a lot that you can talk to her and trust her. It’ll reinforce your bond.
okay i will thank you
I only tell people what I want them to know. Confiding in others leaves room for things like manipulation and exploitation. Things that can make you feel even worse than you do now. You should stop telling her anything you think could hurt you later. If you’re already regreting telling her things as you’ve said, and she hasn’t said anything yet, then imagine when/if she decides to tell anyone.
-Jennifer
thank you for the advice ^^ its fine. who cares anyway lol
I’ve experienced that every person has a threshold of what they can take in. And after it’s all said and done….is it really important to have someone that can listen to everything?
yeah… you’re right *sigh* well whats done is done i can probably tell her some lie and shell believe it and yup
Don’t be ignorant, alright? Even with what I’ve been though, there are people who I know I can count on, and who care for me. I’m sure people are there for you, or else you wouldn’t have told this girl your problems in the first place.
You want people to feel sorry for you? Don’t imply that the people who are taking their time to reply to your post don’t care to a degree. Because there are other things I could be doing, believe me.
-Jennifer
of course i don’t. sorry i was kind of joking. yeah thanks 🙂
Jennifer, I don’t think he was trying to brush you off….just feels foolish for putting himself out there.
are you talking about me…? I’m sorry if i seemed like i was doing that. and also em I’m a girl
I apologize. Today has been long and unforgiving for me, and as much as I hate to admit it; it comes out in my typing sometimes. <3
-Jennifer
oh no its okay >.< its my fault too, I'm not really used to this yet.
My bad bro!
jk, my assumptions are off today
lol its fine xD