So hard to pick yourself back up out of the darkness when your depressed.   It is about the hardest thing to do.  When you have moved even farther passed that to the point you realize that life will never change things will always  be the way they are and have been it feels even harder, when you have no   hope  because u realize things will always be the same.

Its very unfair that people can do things that may permantly mess up your mind and never get punished for it.  They do real harm to your mind an walk away never understanding the damage they caused to other people.  People who you put your complete trust in and betray you and your left with this problem of mistrusting people that last an last. That person may move on to another person doing the same to them.  Leaving a line of mistrusting people.  With cheating lies or whatever.

Someone may fat remarks or ugly remarks to someone that causes permanant damage to the mind, then walk away an live their life forever not understanding (or caring) about what they did.

Some parents maybe have kids being mentally, physically or even sexualy abused  then complain that the kid is the one with the problems, just a rebilious kid ,  a mean kid who wont mind,  a trouble maker or even complain tht the kid is crazy an not understanding or accepting that its because of them.

I hate that the world works that way it is hard to deal with living in a world that way where people do things that cause that kind of damage to us (even to the point of being disable sometimes) and then go live their life like nothing ever happened and expect the people they did these things to to act normal afterwords or even get angry cuz u cant trust them anymore after they cheated and lied an act like you cant cuz something is wrong with you and of course there is something wrong with you because they damaged you.

I guess what i really mean is that i am sick of people causing damage to people an act like the person is supposed to be normal afterwards, and if they dont act like a normal person afterwords the fault is placed on the person who suffered, like something is just wrong with them , like they are either depressed cuz that is who they are, or untrusting cuz they are just that kind of person or just plain crazy cuz they have a mental illness ,none of it is ever their fault.

And we have no protection from people like that ( who destroy us and cause permanent problems)  where is the punishment for people who do that kind of damage to other people.  I mean if u go to jail for damaging someones physical body  u should also go to jail for damaging someone mentally, or at the very least they should have to get asshole tatooed across their forheads so the rest of us can avoid them.

There should also be some law to punish people who keep such secrets abt who they really are from someone they are in a relationship with if those secrets about who they really are will devestate the person who finds out.