Plus if he’s making his watching porn very apparent then it might mean he’s trying to goaud you. I for one would get upset because I think it’s so gross. I know it’s very common among guys but still. And I agree with ninth and aeterna. If he’s the same one then I think he just keeps adding all this pain to you. Ask him why he is doing it and if he won’t change then tell him to make it not so apparent unless you want to just end it with him. With all he has put you through I wouldn’t blame you.
Sure men watch porn, so do a lot of woman, but depending on the couple it’s usually a private thing. Porn has very little to do with actual sex, I think there is a ted talk about a guy who refuses to watch porn because again, it just isn’t like real sex. Now, on to your man watching porn, you are right, it is a pretty normal thing but I don’t know of many guys who would do it in front of a partner unless it’s for mutual enjoyment. It may also be an issue of adequate space. For example, in a one bedroom apartment, there just isn’t any where for him to go for privacy. It really depends on why he is doing it.
You should talk, sorry i havent read your other posts, but talking seems to be a good idea and maybe you should… you know more often?
Sorry for the intromision
Wish you happiness
Yours forever
Noir
I personally wouldn’t be with a guy who watches porn, point blank. It just goes against my principles and everything I believe in. Haven’t read your other posts yet.
I feel like it is just so ingrained in our culture and so accessible that there are really so few men who don’t watch it. Personally, I watch it when I need to, but I hate everything it stands for. It’s tailored to male viewers. It creates a false illusion of women enjoying what is essentially male only pleasure. And it’s not uncommon for porn stars to take a lot of pain killers before hand in order to pretend to enjoy it.
Oh sorry, my post went into moderation because I used the “p” word. Here’s the recap.
Sure men watch porn, so do a lot of woman, but depending on the couple it’s usually a private thing. Porn has very little to do with actual sex, I think there is a ted talk about a guy who refuses to watch porn because again, it just isn’t like real sex. Now, on to your man watching porn, you are right, it is a pretty normal thing but I don’t know of many guys who would do it in front of their significant other unless it’s for mutual enjoyment. It may also be an issue of adequate space. For example, in a one bedroom apartment, there just isn’t any where for him to go for privacy. It really depends on why he is doing it.
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If it’s the same boyfriend from your other posts, he’s a sociopath regardless. You should save yourself and leave. Just my two cents.
I agree with nin…if its the same guy…leave regardless of this detail…
If its another..or just general I guess….im not really sure…if it bothers you..say something?
Plus if he’s making his watching porn very apparent then it might mean he’s trying to goaud you. I for one would get upset because I think it’s so gross. I know it’s very common among guys but still. And I agree with ninth and aeterna. If he’s the same one then I think he just keeps adding all this pain to you. Ask him why he is doing it and if he won’t change then tell him to make it not so apparent unless you want to just end it with him. With all he has put you through I wouldn’t blame you.
Sure men watch porn, so do a lot of woman, but depending on the couple it’s usually a private thing. Porn has very little to do with actual sex, I think there is a ted talk about a guy who refuses to watch porn because again, it just isn’t like real sex. Now, on to your man watching porn, you are right, it is a pretty normal thing but I don’t know of many guys who would do it in front of a partner unless it’s for mutual enjoyment. It may also be an issue of adequate space. For example, in a one bedroom apartment, there just isn’t any where for him to go for privacy. It really depends on why he is doing it.
You should talk, sorry i havent read your other posts, but talking seems to be a good idea and maybe you should… you know more often?
Sorry for the intromision
Wish you happiness
Yours forever
Noir
I personally wouldn’t be with a guy who watches porn, point blank. It just goes against my principles and everything I believe in. Haven’t read your other posts yet.
I feel like it is just so ingrained in our culture and so accessible that there are really so few men who don’t watch it. Personally, I watch it when I need to, but I hate everything it stands for. It’s tailored to male viewers. It creates a false illusion of women enjoying what is essentially male only pleasure. And it’s not uncommon for porn stars to take a lot of pain killers before hand in order to pretend to enjoy it.
Oh sorry, my post went into moderation because I used the “p” word. Here’s the recap.
Sure men watch porn, so do a lot of woman, but depending on the couple it’s usually a private thing. Porn has very little to do with actual sex, I think there is a ted talk about a guy who refuses to watch porn because again, it just isn’t like real sex. Now, on to your man watching porn, you are right, it is a pretty normal thing but I don’t know of many guys who would do it in front of their significant other unless it’s for mutual enjoyment. It may also be an issue of adequate space. For example, in a one bedroom apartment, there just isn’t any where for him to go for privacy. It really depends on why he is doing it.