So as you can see you already know what i’m about to talk about, yeah i might be young but sex as a different meaning for me the more the half of the other my age younger or older, yes i’m a virgin but it’s really sad seeing sex just becoming what its becoming today as weird as it may seems sex is a gift, i see i as a gift, a gift to your husband and wife and it’s kinda the reason why i want to stay a virgin till marriage (lol if i’m not dead ) but yeah i always tough of sex as a gift a unique gift you could give to someone that you love and know that truly loves you, the only gift he or she could be experimenting that no else ever did of you, like what is one thing she can have that no one else ever had, holding you hand, i’m sure he would not be the first one, calling you his yet again not sure if he’s the first one, there’s a lot of thing he/she may call as i’m lucky to do with you but what is a one that that for sure no else as ever experience with you, that is sex, but sadly i think i might be the only one that thinks like that and many people have told me it was weird for 14 year old to feel that way about sex, we’re loosing the meaning of sex (not that sex ever had a meaning) but the thing is, sex is just sex (i don’t know how to explain this but i’ll try) like you can just go and knowing that from right to left girls boys loosing their virginity like it was nothing and most of the times on one night stands, i won’t judge you for that, but it’s just idk not right maybe i’m not sure it’s just how i feel, like your virginity is something really important and i’m so angry at people who literally steal the virginity of someone else like it’s not right, it’s so wrong on so many levels but yeah of one thing that i remember seeing somewhere “many can fuck but only a few can make love” i never really understood it and still now it had me wondering but yeah just want to let that out, and the same thing come to love now a day people are just saying “i love you” randomly without even meaning it and it’s sad, it;s really sad where are loosing the meaning of so many things now, i don’t a “i love you’ should be say if you don’t really feel it in you, question yourself are you really in love are those words meaningful or am i just saying it cause other couples say it too. Cause now a day it always like this “well this is doing that i should do it too” “well this is saying i love to is girlfriend i should do it too” “well this is doing wtf he want i will do the same” people way to often live by the lives of others (does this even make sense i hope so) and don’t often play by them self and it’s sad it’s really sad
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I feel the same way too. My opinion is that I’ll only have sex with the truly special girl of my life (if i ever find her lol). I mean I probably won’t even kiss a girl until I’m married I think. I hate how people these days treat these things like it’s just normal. It should be special, reserved only for the special one 🙂
yes, so true. Really hope you find the girl of your life 🙂
Meaningless sex is an opportunity to feel wanted just for one night. It’s an uplifting feeling when someone wants to hold you, even in the most rough way possible, or use you for their own enjoyment. Perhaps it’s because I endure in endless self-loathing and want to be abused, because I feel that’s what I deserve. I think I’m dumb and boring, but amazing in bed, it’s all I have going for me.
When you think about death almost constantly, one night flings with strangers can distract you, and it feels like you live an exciting, free life. So the sanctity of meaningful, gentle act of love-making says absolutely nothing to me. I don’t think anyone would ever fuck me because they love me. Also, I would never let anyone into my world of unstable mental health and breakdowns. It’s much easier to get physically intimate with someone than be emotionally open with them, if that makes sense.
Maybe, idk, for you it might but what can i say everyone has is own opinion/way of doing their things
Sex is an odd thing. Someone may want you for sex for one night, or they may want you because you can do things for them, or because you have money, or because they don’t want someone else to have you, but is it really you they want? It turns into an economic transaction where your utility to them is the object they’re after. Their utility to you should commiserate – but what if you find sex boring? If it’s all just an economic transaction, then relationships are tedious, and the desire for that gratification is nothing less than the response to being bombarded by advertising which suggests you should want it.
Ahh what you are talking about is known as the red pill in which a girl will only be interested in you depending upon of what value you are to them.
Sex is overrated.
sex is definitely overrated bud! mental sex is what you really want. that connection where you fuck her mind and she fucks yours.
yess!!!
double yesssssssssss!