do we lose people in order to teach ourselves to be stronger because the people we lost were the ones we were maybe too close with? Unhealthily relied on people? To teach ourselves you can’t become this dangerously close with someone? Or do we lose people because the human race is selfish and one person is always giving more than they’re getting until ultimately the other person won’t give anything back at all?
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we lose people because their road and ours aren’t running parallel anymore. simply different journies. a divine setup for a future not yet known. we find our personal whys for why it happened later.
No. We lose people we love because we are not immortal. That’s it. Nature is cruel, nihilistic, and pointless. If I learned anything from loss it’s that.
Are you disagreeing with me or her?
Inevitability of death is almost the only real thing you can bet on and it will happen to every living creature on this mote of dust called earth
I’m not talking about death. Im talking about a friend or loved one decide they don’t want us in their lives anymore
I’m well aware dead.
What has a beginning usually has an ending. That includes friendships. People go their separate ways, they drift apart. People change over time, they don’t stay the same forever.
That’s another universal quality of life, innit? I mean, loss, suffering, joy, happiness, probably drunken vomiting… everyone experiences these things from time to time. There probably is no general why involved, I don’t think, except in the case of drunken vomiting.