i’ve tried. i really did. i gave everyone around me at least one chance to try and help me. but no one actually bothered. and i can’t tell anyone, because i feel fidgety whenever i tell anyone. because of all sorts of things. i’m detached from the world, i don’t have any true friends who will be there with me 24/7, even in front of my closer friends, i still have to pretend. why? because i’m scared they will all run away the moment they see all my flaws. i’m scared that once people see the real me, they won’t want to be friends anymore, just because they can’t deal with all my issues. why am i scared? because it’s happened so many fucking times i can’t count. and i’m the “hope” of the family. they’re all putting all their wishes and expectations on me, and everytime i don’t do something well, i can see the disappointment in their eyes and tones, and even when i do something well, i can’t even feel happy, because it’s just going to increase their expectations of me, and i won’t be able to live up to them, and i don’t have anyone to turn to either, that me and my father are just putting up acts in front of each other, that my mother is 10000 miles away and all my friends seem to be doing very well without me and my brain is not helping everyday, i get the insane mood swings i talked about, makes me pull my hair and cry and resort to self harm, which then leads to panic attacks, and i just feel so useless and helpless. it’s with me, it’s all always with me. all of these isn’t helping my depressed state either. i hate the person i’ve turned into, and i hate looking into the mirror, where all i see is this fucked up girl that nobody even needs. my father goes out almost every night and goes overseas i barely even see him, and when i do, he’s always on his phone or doing work. i see my teachers more than i see him. maybe because he can’t deal with me. just like everyone else. lol. “and the snowball keeps a-rollin”. it really does.
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I hope you find someone who will accept you for who you are, issues and all. You deserve to have someone who’s got your back while you’re going through all this.
Stay strong ..
Like the following lyrics say :
Intensify
You take me so high
All reasons why
We’ll leave this world behind
We can feel it till we fall with time
You’re the one, I’m yours, baby you’re mine
In the darkness we’re each other’s light
In the moment we’ve always belonged
Through the valleys of the wildest storm
To the vision we share and beyond
Although I’m not there
Close your eyes baby
For I know, you will, feel it
Can you feel it
We’re in too deep here
Eternal Feelings
We share a soul
Please hold
So, never let go
So, oh, never let go
( Motif ft. Hannah Magenta – Never let go )
You have to be strong enough to enjoy life without depending so much on other people.
Sometimes one chance isn’t enough.
You can’t really count on them after one didn’t work i know, but still, dealing with this sort of stuff is tough alone. Maybe one extra chance could have a different result since you have given time enough time to act differently the next time.
If your friends are going to run away as soon as they see your real self, or the stuff that you’re struggling with, how can you call them friends?
Don’t let your family expectations of you weight you down so badly. Do things the way you wish and at your own pace.
Self harm will only make you feel worse at the end. If you can find any other sort of thing you can do insted as a release, you should try to.
You’re not useless. You’re trying your best.
Hey…welcome to the club..