When you think of yourself how do you feel? Tell me every bad thing someone has said to you or you said to yourself. I want you to think of those things and then overcome those thoughts with positive things you’ve been told. But for real tell all the mean things you can remember anyone has said to you, and then tell me all the good things that anyone has ever told you. I’ll start(obviously 🙂 )
BAD: Okay so I’ve been told I’m extremely annoying, my hair is to puffy, I’m fat, only skinny girls can wear yoga pants not people with bigger thighs and no butt, whore, Maybe you should try make-up to help with all that *points at my face*, how do you even have friends? you are so annoying., slut, You have no actual friends they just feel sorry for you. I love you
GOOD: Your hair looks really nice today, you look amazing in that outfit, I wish i had your hair, you are such a great friend, You are so smart i love it, you are so funny, you made my day, you don’t need make-up you’re naturally beautiful, I wish I was as tall as you, I wish I had as great of a friend as you, I love you.
I don’t know if this will help you with anything, like if you are not feeling particularly good today, I hope this helps. I just want you to realize you are so much better than any mean, hurtful phrases or words ever directed at you. This is probably really dumb, and I hope it doesn’t trigger anything for anyone, i just want you to realize you are better than anything you’ve heard or told yourself to bring you down. I want you to think of every good thing you’ve heard any time something bad happens to you.
I realized that I don’t need to listen to everything i have heard about myself, I know what is true and what is not true, so i will not let anyone break me down anymore. People can spread rumors and try to hurt you, but the main thing is to not let them get the best of you. You need to stand up for yourself and never let someone who doesn’t matter to you change that
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I love your idea. 🙂
I’m really tired so I’m not going to write the lists just now. Just wanted to say, this made me realise that I’ve not had that many really bad things said to my face. Usually they were general comments (about weight, sexuality, gender, laziness, depression, etc) I applied to myself, or things I told myself. And thinking about the good reminded me of all the good things people have said. So I just wanted to say thank you for all the reminders. 🙂
thank you! And I hope you always remember the good in your life over the bad Trix!
I can’t answer this tonight. Too many voices in my head heckling my life.
Answer when you’re ready, overcome those thoughts Hazy Day Sunflower. Don’t let them control you
Thank you crockpot. Someone put an egg scrambler in my brain this morning.
This is such a nice post, thank you!
The list is long so i’ll only mention the most imporntant things.
Bad: weird, annoying, loser, fat, you’ll die alone, worthless, selfish, mean, rude, spoiled brat, zombie, retarded ect…
Good: funny, nice, positive thinker, smart, nerd, you have good taste for music, cute, mad language learning guru (i highly doubt that but lol), awesome person…
Thank you! I honestly thought people would have gotten mad about it but i’m glad people are liking it. You are so much better than any bad things said at you, jut remember that and you will be okay!
Bad things people have said to me.
1. You should be ashamed of yourself: that is fucking pathetic.
2. OMG, I never knew a penis could be that small.
3. I’ve seen bigger dicks on newborn babies.
4. You will never satisfy any woman; you should get a blade and cut your wrists on cam while we laugh at you bleeding to death.
5. Good, now cut that pathetic little cock off and make yourself into the big girl that you are meant to be.
6. Yeh, then cut ur throat on cam so we can all watch you die.
7. You need to accept that you are not a man and you should learn to take it in ur ass and be a real man’s *****.
8. My 5 year old nephew has a bigger penis than you.
9. OMG, it’s so tiny, how have you not killed yourself by now?
10. OMG, it’s an innie.
11. Have you considered having a sex change and just living as a woman, it couldn’t be any worse than living as a man with that pathetic little thing as a penis.
12. Wow, it looks like the cap off a toothpaste tube.
13. If I were a man with a penis that small, I would have killed myself years ago.
14. Where is your penis, did you lose it in an accident?
15. Are you a Trans guy, is that thing some doctors attempt at making a cock from a clit?
16. Are you a real hermaphrodite?
17. You can’t be serious, that’s not real.
18. What do you do if a woman takes you home with her; I hope you don’t ever expect any woman to touch that thing?
19. I hope you warn women before they waste their time with you, wow, that would be a big disappointment.
20. You will never satisfy any woman, you are not even a man.
Good things people have said to me
1. You have long eyelashes, just like a girl.
Those things were painful to read. For the good things, I’ve seen people compliment you on SP, so you have those comments too.
Thanks Trix, It seems to be only the ones that are constantly drummed into me that I remember. Any positive compliments I may have received don’t seem to register. I accept that this is who I am and I can’t change it and I accept that everyone here would have likely laughed at some of these comments, I even laughed when the Asian woman hit me with the toothpaste cap one.