Wow. Six years is quite a spell of grieving. I was kind of gimpy for two years once. When I started dating again I didn’t have time to moon over her anymore.
I didn’t. I just got to the point where I could go on without him. Kind of like how a heroin addict never stops loving the drug but understands they can no longer function in life using it. I know that doesn’t help any.
Wow i feel sooo much better i was just thinking about my ex i stopped talking to her in july and I keep thinking about her and i want to stop soooo bad. We met a few years ago this month. I went a few month period with out thinking about her and then had a dream about her a few days ago. Since then shes been on my mind off and on.
I’ve never looked back on any of my other ex’s. Just this last one. I never realized how much I cared about him and obviously never thought I couldn’t forget him. Damnit!!
Six years… never got to that long. I think 4 years was my longer mourning period (i can still break that record next year tho). Tbh even if i got over them it never stopped hurting completely… sort of became a part of me, if that makes sense. Hopefully one of your resolutions is getting over him in the next year (one of the ones you stick too tho, not the usual like i’ll stop smoking, which never works, lol).
yah, things like forgetting and moving on isn’t simple as everyone said it would be. And i don’t know what people do to achieve that. Iv been in relationships , multiple break ups but I never had trouble in moving on. You were in love and thats something I didn’t experience. Maybe all you needed is closure. Idk not sure myself. I hope you can move on 😉 P.s that guys a d*ck
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Wow. Six years is quite a spell of grieving. I was kind of gimpy for two years once. When I started dating again I didn’t have time to moon over her anymore.
I understand this. It it took me about 10 or so years to get over one of my exes. It is like an addiction.
How did you finally get over him?
I didn’t. I just got to the point where I could go on without him. Kind of like how a heroin addict never stops loving the drug but understands they can no longer function in life using it. I know that doesn’t help any.
Wow i feel sooo much better i was just thinking about my ex i stopped talking to her in july and I keep thinking about her and i want to stop soooo bad. We met a few years ago this month. I went a few month period with out thinking about her and then had a dream about her a few days ago. Since then shes been on my mind off and on.
I’ve never looked back on any of my other ex’s. Just this last one. I never realized how much I cared about him and obviously never thought I couldn’t forget him. Damnit!!
Six years… never got to that long. I think 4 years was my longer mourning period (i can still break that record next year tho). Tbh even if i got over them it never stopped hurting completely… sort of became a part of me, if that makes sense. Hopefully one of your resolutions is getting over him in the next year (one of the ones you stick too tho, not the usual like i’ll stop smoking, which never works, lol).
He didn’t want me. It hurts to have someone reject you like that. It’s like dying on the inside.
Life a knife in my heart.
Fuck someone else.
yah, things like forgetting and moving on isn’t simple as everyone said it would be. And i don’t know what people do to achieve that. Iv been in relationships , multiple break ups but I never had trouble in moving on. You were in love and thats something I didn’t experience. Maybe all you needed is closure. Idk not sure myself. I hope you can move on 😉 P.s that guys a d*ck