I had an abortion. It was years ago. I must have just turned 18. THERE I said it. He was horrible. He..hated me and everything that I was. He was rich and I was poor. He was white and I’m..what I am. I couldn’t do it. He contacted me today to remind me of the anniversary. It tore me apart, the things he said about status, and wealth.
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I’m sorry, Rain. It has been a while, my friend. Wealth and status do not define you. You are as valuable and as deserving as anybody else. Never forget that.
I miss you, old friend.
I’ve missed you, too. It has been a very long time. If there’s anything that I can do… or listen to… please email me. I’d like to help.
It’s what you do that defines you met no man think you’re less than him by any means (coming from a man) if anything he’s using you as crutch to make himself feel better you’re better than him
He doesn’t care that you aborted. He takes sadistic pleasure in making you feel less than zero. He’s a sociopath and knows he can manipulate and play you like a fiddle and you fall for it every time.
Why are you still in touch with this idiot? Only a pathetic, insecure loser would rub his wealth in a poor person’s face to feel better about himself.
When people wave that carrot of money in front of you, they’re just showing you what you can’t have or ever will. Don’t fall for their games and think if you appease them enough they’ll reward you. I’ve known some rich people personally and not to generalize but the ones I’ve known were childish, obnoxious, cheap fuckers.
A friend of mine who makes below average income splurged on me on my birthday-he didn’t have to, yet it was a birthday I never forgot, nor his selfless generosity, he just wanted to make sure I was happy and having a great time. Compare that with my rich friend who bickers over pennies and having to pay tips to waitresses.
Money don’t mean shit, it’s the character and integrity of the person that matters. And this old beau of yours is scumbag, rotten to the core. Get rid of him, move on with your life. Don’t regret the abortion, it was the smart decision at the time and who knows what mess you’d be in if you kept it.
I should add, the only benefit of keeping that child was that he’d be the heir and would probably be forced to marry you and you’d be entitled to some of his wealth. Many women do try to pull that trick only wealthy men, but if you missed your chance then it’s best to move on.
*on wealthy men
we need an EDIT button admins.
Hi, day2day… There have been some issues over the past few years in which it seemed clear that an EDIT button would actually be a bad idea. But I don’t want to derail this post going into details…
Hi distant.road, fair enough. I could see opportunity for abuse, where people might make a post and change it after and create issues with others. Some sites let you make changes for up to 5 mins and then locks it. But I understand, just thought I’d throw out the idea.
Rain,
I agree with Day2Day. He’s using you for his own power trip. When he pulls that garbage you need to tell him that he’s lucky, because if you kept the child, then he’d be paying a hefty sum in child support.
He wouldn’t say anything mean to you if he didn’t already feel like shit himself. Maybe deep down he feels guilty about the abortion and is taking it out on you passive aggressively. The best thing to do is block and ignore him from now on. One day he might lose all his money and then he might have a different stance. He may be immature but his journey is his own and not something you need to be a part of, so don’t let him make you feel bad. I hope you find someone who appreciates you and isn’t so shallow as to be so hung up on social status and materialistic goods. Money is NOT everything, and there have been many suicidal posters here who said they were wealthy, “had it all,” and they still wanted to die.