I’m dating this guy.. It’s been almost 7 months. He still hasn’t learned the word no.. I mean he never knew it. I try not to judge him for the past but he keeps acting as he use to. He wanted to have sex and I did too but I said no because I know I wouldn’t be able to handle anymore because we already had sex not that long before. But he decided to push and push and I never said yes. But I could have left…. I just know he didn’t really mean to hurt me but I feel so used…
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Fu*k that guy. IMHO it’s only fun when both parties are enjoying it. That is what you should be looking for.
If he can’t learn to accept no, then leave him. No good will come from a relationship with such a person.
If you can’t explain to him that lack of consent leaves you feeling used, I think you need to leave, whether or not he actually wanted to hurt you. Consent is pretty fundamental.
I’m honestly debating on leaving him…