So I don’t know why but my mom and I were talking about how I’d be if I had a kid. I told her mom im a year away from 30 and have never had a gf and girls are legitimately disgusted by me this is a dumb conversation. I compared it to winning the lottery or driving a bugatti. Im bitter to the point of never really wanting to try again. I know i will eventually but I’ll fail. I mean no misogyny at all when i say this but i find women to have an entitled attitude with dating. Im sure not all do and surely a lot of men do as well but i digress. Entitlement makes me sick in a way. I know I won’t date because im ugly bitter and awkward. I do mind it but i accept it. I rather not talk about a bullshit situation that wont even fucking happen. If i ever did date people on a regular basis id probably get a vasectomy. That said ugliness and anxiety make for effective birth control.
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I’m a woman, and I agree with you. Maybe that makes me some sort of Uncle Tom, but whatever. It’s true. Most women I’ve met have an entitled attitude when it comes to a lot of things. (And I’m not necessarily innocent of that, either.)
I don’t think it’s how we’re built or anything, I think it’s how we’re raised.
Lol @ the idea of a woman being an uncle tom. Especially because in my head an uncle tom is a racial specific thing but i understand what you are saying. Its a turn off in a way and it makes me more ok with being single. There are times where i hate being single but there are other times where im glad for reasons like that. The idea that anyone is entitled to anything is ridiculous to me. Im not entitled to being liked and neither is anyone else to me.
people should be entitled to certain things. safety whether in food or shelter, right to a measure of personal autonomy unless infringing on the rights of others, to not be oppressed.
just because there are people not granted those ‘universal rights’ doesn’t mean a person isn’t automatically entitled to it. and maybe noone should expect to be liked on sight, but an instant dislike disgust based on shallow criteria shouldn’t be the norm. at the least some common courtesy and decency..
to your original point, everyone has that sense, you can’t just generalize one group. i’ve met plenty of men who’ve felt free to take whatever they want simply because they could, and women who expect the world. i’ve seen some truly selfless acts by individuals of either gender too, who expected nothing.
but i’m fairly certain there’s not one person who is innocent in that regard, whether slight or extreme. your post was to a targeted issue but i took it broadly.
I don’t think people should be entitled to anything. We have basic human needs and rights that we should have but we also know that at the end of the day humans are simply “evolved” mammals. Because of our animalistic nature some humans will be denied things they may deserve so feeling entitled to these things even if a logical person says they should have them is flawed.
My original comment qualified for the fact that i was indeed generalizing and know that my statement isn’t a catch all.
I mean with your definition arent we all entitled to being loved basic shelter and sustenance?i don’t think a person should feel like these things will automatically happen even if i agree that most all humans deserve them. To feel like they will be handed to you just because is fundamentally flawed because they require some effort and some luck to be obtained.
ah, i misread that part (generalising), I’m sorry for that.
in a general sense, Yes we are.
i should say i don’t equate entitlement in this sense.. to automatically receiving them. moreso that at the least everyone as you say deserves them, it’s not unreasonable (to me) even if highly idealistic to think they should be available without inhuman effort.. i know that just because i think people should have them or an individual does is by no means a guarantee to a reality of it.
Fair enough intelligent dance music. I guess mose specificly i dont think that just because you have been found attractive(be you male or female as a straight man i could care less about the douchey dudes) you are not entitled to better treatment because of it. If you do feel that way I’m more likely to be put off by that
I understand this post and it’s the same reason I’m not bothering with dating. Guys seem entitled too, especially since they have so many other choices now. They don’t try to dress nice or even compliment you. They just want to take you to their house, have sex and send you straight home. Then move onto the next one. It goes both ways. Guys are cunts too when it comes to dating.
Oh and if they can get away with being super cheap on a date, they will. I’m not asking for something expensive, but like I said, they just want to go back to their house. No money involved there. Whenever I start dating again, if a guy won’t at least take me to lunch or a movie, he can fuck right off. I’ve felt used enough by complete losers just because I was lonely.
Date? What the fuck is a date lol. I’ve heard of the concept but cant say i know what one is.
I think people nowadays in general are more entitled. men and women.
There are good women out there who aren’t superficial and want a deep connection with a loving and compassionate man, but like i said, people now adays in general are pretty vain and hateful.
I’m 22 and have never been in a relationship and of course am a virgin, but I don;t want to give up. I’ve been telling myself for years that it was impossible and no one could find me attractive but that just makes you sink deeper in the hole.
Nope all people are pieces of ahit unfortunately. There are good women like there are winning lottery tickets. Im sure dudes suck too all who may or may not comment on this post but as mentioned not my concern as a straight male whos been denied literally thousands of times.