Why do people throw that term out like candy? Everyone says they’re a “friend,” but you know they’re not, not a real, true, genuine friend. I grew up in a different state, and back there a friend was a real friend, you didn’t call them a friend unless you meant it. Now here, in this state, it’s all phony and BS. Well anyway, I hate this shit. In the end, I’m all alone with no real friends and no one to give a damn about me.
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Exactly. I even myself don’t understand that.
For me… either you are an acquaintance or my friend.
And if you are just an acquaintance don’t use the word friend because I would never abandoned my friend like you did.
People are so mean. The world is full of backstabbers. I had wrost experience. I had already cried enough because of them. I don’t even wanna say a word about them.
Those people made me feel like I was missing some quality that requires to be a friend.
But that wasn’t me. That was those stupids.
Anyways… not everyone has quality to recognise a diamond. 🙂
And for you….
It’s better to be alone than those assholes.
I know how it feel to be unwanted….
Just wait for the right person…. may be… someday… you will find someone.
Till then keep living.
And not only live… live and thrive.
Do whatever you like…
If you can’t find a hobby right now. .. then pursue your childhood fantasies. 🙂
Be Merry. 🙂 🙂 🙂
idk…it’s been so long, I’ve given up waiting / hoping / wishing that life will somehow be different. How can one hold on to hope when it’s been decades of crap? How does one expect the future to somehow be different?
Thanks for the kind and uplifting words. I just feel like utter crap today. 🙁
Same here 🙂
Dacades of crap 🙂
And even after I use the term decades, I’m pretty sure, I’m younger than you.
I don’t even know why I should continue my life.
The only reason I’m enduring this pain because I been there and since I been there, I don’t want someone else to be there because of me.
lol, do I sound that old???
i feel old, but i’m middle-aged, although….i suppose that is kinda “old”
Hi _darkness & Still Wandering
I’ve been through the same situation in relation to phony friends, phony people.
I moved a lot and my best real friends were behind. So behind I lost them.
Where I live now is exactly like that: they say they are friends but they are not…not even colleagues. Just curious to know about my life to get new information and gossip by my back later.
I miss real friends. As I don’t have and have no idea the day I’ll have friends again I spend my time with myself. But sometimes I get fed up of me and would like to have friends to hang around.
“Just curious to know about my life to get new information and gossip by my back later.”
Oh yes dearie, I too know that well. Sigh.
Hi 🙂
That’s it. 🙂
No more words.
Just Hi 🙂
Hi 🙂
Different people, places, cultures, countrys, etc. understand friendship differently.
I spent a long time rejecting opportunities to make friends because I was looking for more than the people around me found normal.
When you’re lonely you want a lot more from other people than someone who has plenty of social connections. The trick is that you won’t make any connection till you stop expecting so much and just find some company.
It’s not like I moved to another country or it’s a completely different culture. It’s just a different state. It’s still the American culture. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect a real friend.
What is a “real” friend?
someone who doesn’t ditch you when you’re having a bad day
someone who you can talk to
someone who listens
someone who cares
I care I will listen here’s my email mia200085@outlook.com. There are people here who care and will listen too. Trust that your not alone.