It’s almost a year since I have been on this site .
I’m a worthless coward .
I will be 22 years old. I kinda do the same things as normal 22 year old. Besides being divorced and looking for future husband because I’m old .very soon all my siblings and friends will have kids …I will be lucky if I have some one I text.
I know I’m not gonna die soon . I’m not special in anyway, not gonna be special ever to say my life is worth somthing .
I posted I will just get married and have kids .every body said I don’t have some scared duty to wed and have kids.
I have no special qualitys no nothing . so if I’m not gonna die …..why not do the only thing I can do as a woman is have kids and family .
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Hello there. I know you’ve been through so much, and I know this is a bit insensitive to say, but you’re still young, you’re not at all old. I was even surprised to know that you think that way because you’re younger than me and marriage is not in my mind right now.
You can get married eventually if you find the right person and if you’re ready again. Don’t lose hope just because you think you’re getting older. Actually, the more you have to keep anticipating because you’d meet like-minded mature people as you grow older.
Hey Kupo, it’s good to hear from you today.
You need to take a little time for yourself. You have qualities, you may just need to do some soul searching, or try something new and fresh. Plus, you’re caring and gentle, you already have some good, necessary qualities!
Woman are much more than baby making machines, I hope you know that. Women can do many things than men can do. As I said, just take some time for yourself. Be patient with yourself and piece together the person you want to be, and make tiny adjustments if needed to get to that person you want to be, okay? Just don’t feel that you have a duty to have kids, have a child and get married because that’s what you want to do. You feel me?
Anyways, anytime you want to chat, you can email me anytime. 🙂
hello there. I am offspring of a woman who thought marriage and having kids was all there was left for her. She was miserable. I could always tell when she was reminded of what might have been..