My best friend just got mad at me for not hanging out with him today. He said he wanted to hang out at the mall. I was planning on doing so but I ended up falling asleep due to the fact that we had been drinking last night until the early morning today. I was actually gonna go but I didn’t because I passed out on my bed and slept for 10-11 hours. During this time he had attempted to call me but I never heard my phone ring due to the fact that my earbuds were connected to my phone at the time so the ringing was really quiet. He called 11 times before he gave up and sent me a text expressing his anger and disappointment towards me for being a fake friend. I don’t think he should accuse me of being a “fake friend” because I’ve risked so much just to hang out with him. If anything I should be the one accusing him of being a fake friend because he puts me in danger with the law often when he gets drunk and high. He recently got busted for underage drinking and now he’s on a very short leash yet he still hasn’t learned his lesson. One time he almost got me and his younger brother in trouble because he decided to sit outside his car window while screaming like an idiot while we were driving back home from the gas station. He was doing this late at night in our neighborhood and a cop caught him doing this while he had a t-shirt wrapped around his face like a crazy maniac. Luckily we got let off with a warning that time but I would’ve been in big trouble with my dad because of his immature act. He said he sometimes gets a little crazy when he’s drunk but really it’s actually every time he gets drunk. Honestly the more I think about it, the more I’m starting to think that he’s the one being a fake friend. He loses control when he’s getting drunk and high. I feel like he’s one of those stoner-drunk hybrids who get lonely when no one wants to get drunk and high with them every week. I actually don’t mind drinking but it seems like he has no goals or any motives to do anything but drink and get high. He enjoys getting “fucked up” and constantly talks about how much he can’t wait to go to the bars and “mac on hoes”. I personally get offended when he talks about women like they’re just pieces of meat. This dude likes to go around telling people things like “don’t drink and drive” yet he goes out and does this all the time. He doesn’t practice what he preaches. Plus he attempted to intimidate me last night when he was drunk. I’m pretty sure he as some kind of angry short man insecurity so he tries to make up for it by talking tough all the time. He’s like a little Chihuahua. He’s also always telling me things like ” I would never do this but I’d beat you and your brothers @$$ if we got into a fight because I’ve been in fights and I have more experience”. I don’t see why he has to tell me things like that. I’ve never threatened him or showed aggression towards him. He never had a dad so I’m sure that has something to do with him trying to act tough all the time but he really doesn’t have to be an @$$hole about it. Haha the more I think about the more I realize how much I shouldn’t give a shit about him. I’m done wasting my time hanging out with him. I feel like I’m babysitting when he gets drunk because i’m always the one trying to get him to change his mind about stupid decisions but he never listens to me. Fuck it!…I’m gonna let him know that we can’t hang out anymore until he grows up and starts being more responsible. I’m not gonna let him put me in danger just because he has no self-control.
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Hello! Read your post. I use to have friends like this. Some people really can’t drink without some type drama involved! I use to hang out with friends that nearly every single time drinking was involved they looked for fights! Or conflicts with police. Your friend so much reminds me of them. Do yourself a big favor and lose that guys number. If you continue to hang out with him drinking, you will end up bruised , in jail or both!!