All my life I have had an attraction for the opposite gender but I don’t really care for sex that much. People make fun of me and make me feel like I should feel ashamed of myself because I’ve never had sex and I’m 20yrs old. I’ve liked other girls back in high school but everyone around me glorifies sex like its something everyone HAS to desire so dearly otherwise you’re a loser/alien/weirdo. The truth is I really only care for the inner connections. I guess I’m just a hopeless romantic. I’m someone who believes in Love without sex. Sex is just an activity 2 lovers perform when they’re both feeling horny for each other or trying to have kids. But what’s so wrong with not wanting to reproduce? What’s wrong with keeping sex at a near non-existence between 2 lovers? The more I think about this the more I realize how hard it will be to find someone like this. I’ve always been a fucking weirdo. I’m too different to connect with most humans. Thank god I actually have found 2 other humans who understand me. They’re people I can actually call friends. But other than that I will always be the minority and it sucks. Perhaps most women want sex just as badly as men and if that’s the case then there’s no hope for people like me. Oddly enough I’m a guy who is saying all this but its true, I’m not you’re average Joe and that saddens me. Why can’t I be normal and enjoy what other humans enjoy? They pity me.
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i understand how you’re feeling….. i think i’m asexual. i don’t want to have sex. it’s a waste of time for me. i don’t desire it, nor do i need it. but i am very capable of becoming infatuated with others. i know. and no, you’re not too different. there is an entire community that stands behind you and understands how you feel, whether you can see that or not right now. head up, love. 🙂
You’re not weird or alien. I don’t know many people like you but there are groups of Aces out there. I think I can understand it a bit, seeing how disgusting it looks like to me, especially when men only look at me as if I was just a piece of meat. It’ll be hard like hell to find someone who wants to be friends and love you without this primary basics of sex. Nowadays the world is all about it, unfortunately.
Yes, you are. You’re genuine, a non-conformist that marches to the beat of his own drummer. How dare you defy the shallow standards set up by society. Is being an independent thinker painful? It seems so frightening. 😉
You’re totally okay. Take care of yourself. Let you be you and others be themselves. No need to compare. There are people like you around…you’ve already connected with some. There are more. Be the good person you are.