I really hate myself. I can’t accept that I’m too fucking short. You know, only 5’6. That’s frustrating. Fuck my life! Fuck, fuck, FUCK! When I walk on the street, people around me are taller than me, even women. Everyone is taller than me. That’s how I realized why I have never got a girlfriend, why I’m still a virgin at 22. What can I do? Oh, Elliot Rodger, you know who was he, right? He was short too and girls rejected him because of this. Eventually he killed himself. I think it will be my fate. A life without girls and sex is worthless. And white girls reject me because I’m shorter than them. They would laugh at my face if I tried to speak to them!
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Hey- I’m 5’6″, female, too old for you – but I would’ve talked to you.. you haven’t met the right person (people). Physically… a lot of people are too wrapped up in what the media tells them .. look for someone that just doesn’t buy into that shit.
I know that many girls are 5’6 or 5’5 but they always prefer tall men. We short men are like invisible.
Don’t believe when they say “you haven’t met the right person”, such a person does not exist.
The right person? How bizzare. Were judged on our looks, behavior, and what we have to offer to that other right person, should they accept maybe they’ll be the right person for a while, most people are crule, selfish and are always looking to better themselves…
Personally I myself am exhausted trying to find this right person… I myself am 31 and have yet to meet this person…
But I suppose at least you’re not still a virgin like I am.
from what i read, the reason why they reject you has nothing to do with your height
Yes, it does! I’m the shortest man in the city where I live and the only one who has never kissed a girl. What conclusion can I get from this?
Maybe the fact you haven’t kissed a girl is the reason you’re the shortest man in the city where you live. It’s hard to tell which way causation flows in situations like this.
I just feel bad that you think that way :/
If its any consolation, I’m 6’1″ and I have struggled with women all my life. They have never seemed to like me that much. My last girlfriend I had was when I was in my 20’s and that didn’t last long – 3 weekends to be exact. I think I’ve struggled cos I’m not good looking, have no charm and have no money or status. I think maybe I would have got further in life if I’d had a girlfriend. I think other people would have thought more of me like bosses, colleagues etc. I noticed when I was young that people who were doing better than me or more highly thought of all had girlfriends and wives but they sometimes used to say that I was the “lucky” one. I thought they were the lucky ones tho.
I don’t mean this as a joke: https://www.datingshortgirls.com
What I think you have going on is a lack of confidence in yourself. That’s what girls look for most. Not cocky, but confident. Go there, talk to some ladies, and don’t worry about your height. 5’6” used to be the average height 200 years ago. That’s not that long ago. Hope that helps.
Do you think I’ve never tried to do that? But they just look at me like a freak. You know, I’m sick of being a virgin at 22. Fuck this pathetic life! Always alone, alone and seeing other people enjoying their lives with their girlfriends.
I honestly have no idea. But I don’t think you’re a freak.
Having sex is not the only thing that gives us meaning. Relationships can be great with the right person.
When I was 18, I dated a girl that used sex as a tool to manipulate me. Tried to pull me away from my family and friends, when I resisted, she pretended to be pregnant to force me to move in with her. When I resisted, she faked a suicide to get me. 20 years later I’m still messed up from that experience.
Find you. Do whatever makes you happy and find confidence in yourself. THEN the right person will come into your life.
Hey man. I’m 5’6. Find yourself a friend who don’t give a shit about something as pointless as height.
despite height not helping I hardly believe that’s the exact cause of not having a relationship. Well relationship are overrated, but if you really want one, perhaps consider moving where people are shorter so you don’t stand out, I’m serious 🙂
What do you mean? Should I move to a third world shithole? I want a decent life! And I don’t like short women, who use to be asians or mexicans.
What’s wrong with asians and mexicans? Jeeze, man. And what does, “who use to be asians or mexicans,” mean? Are they not anymore? I’m so confused.
I mean the few short women I can find in my city are asians or mexicans. They’re not the kind of decent girlfriend I want to have.
YES, the white girls, they are so evil. I agree, life without sex is worthless. Sex is everything, without sex it’s like we don’t even exist. And white girls are the root of all evil in the universe. Damn them.
Yeah, if women are taller then you I don’t know what to say. I mean they’re women!! Women should always be shorter then men, obviously!
Also I think there’s so much irony in the fact that someone named “tallgirl” posted right above this post. HAHAHA.
I can’t imagine how everyone on SP is so sympathetic to this poster. Good on all of you for being so kind, but I’m not such a nice person. Keep yer racism and sexism to yerself ya twat!
Except sex with white girls, of course. That’s the worst.
Ugh, yeah. And tall girls. The worst. Imagine if there was a tall, white girl. That’s like, evil incarnate or something.
Well I (5’10”) dated a tall (6’2″) white lady and let me tell you she was a great girl friend!!
Fuck you! I like white girls, is something wrong with that? They are beautiful, have light eyes and fair or dark hair. Her eyes are so irresistible. Both blondes and brunettes. At least I’d like to have a half-white girlfriend, some Jennifer Lawrence or Vanessa Hudgens. Unfortunately they’re always taller than me. The only short women are ugly mexicans and asians.
I dated a white girl who was technically a dwarf in the state of South Carolina. At least, she liked to brag that she was. I guess she was proud of her stumpiness. The top of her head came up to my chest. She was a cool chick, but completely off her rocker. Her family was made up of people crazier than Norman Bates.
I hope that this is just a troll posting. I really hope so.
I won’t lie: I know height matters to a lot of women.
On the other hand, my little brother is pretty short, and some of the girlfriends he has had were so beautiful I wouldn’t even dare to speak to them. He has other things going for him: He is extremely conscientious, and has graduated from some of the best universities in the world.
It’s funny how obvious these things are when you’re on the outside looking in. I’m sure I have massive blind spots, but here is what I think you should do:
Focus on what you’ve got going for you. You are focusing on your weakness when it comes to dating (height), instead of cultivating your strengths. Height is something you pretty much can’t fix, so stop expending energy on it.
You bring up Elliot Rodger, and he was obviously a troubled person. But he had several things going for him that others don’t: he came from a wealthy background, his parents had even bought him a BMW as far as I remember. I’m not saying that’s necessarily good, I mean, he seemed super lonely and bitter, so who cares about a car, right? But those were still assets. If he had focused on what he had, he might have used it to his own advantage.
I would encourage you to think about what you have to offer the world, because the world cares more about what you CAN do than what you can’t.
If you want to understand women a bit better, google “mating grounds”.
Good luck.
…I wish I had a BMW, wealthy parents & a sweet job.
As it is, I work hard for nothing & everyone either laughs at me, criticizes me, attacks me or ignores me. And most of the time, I WISH for them to ignore me. -_-
I’m sorry Pandaren. Are you who I think you are? Girl, lives in Aus, gamer? If so, I always thought you were cool.
@ muspelhem
Girl, yeah, gamer yeah…nou Aus though.