So i did something stupid two nights ago i was really depressed and started scrating up my arm so it looks like shit my dads not happy about it but i didnt tell him what exactly happemed i cant tell him his kid is suicidal how do you do that my dad would be so ashamed of me im ashamed of myself wishing id never heard of suicide but i have and it sucks i have a job a boyfriend who loves me and yet these thoughts come to me everyday i just wish things could change any advice on what to do
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If youe dad really loved you, he shouldn’t be ashamed of their child just because their suicidal! 🙁
They should be doing their best to love you and comfort you… to help you not feel so bad anymore…
Have you talked to a counselor or a doctor?
Well, you posted stuff on here, so that’s one of the right things to do if you don’t want to tell anyone else. 🙂
It’s good to always have a support system. I can see your bf and your dad are apart of that. If your dad truly loves you, then he won’t be ashamed of you. Same goes to your bf. If you’re having suicidal thoughts everyday, the best thing to do is seek out help. Going to a therapist and psychologist would help. If it’s an emergency, then I’d go to psyciatic hospital and receive help. I’ve learned so much from those people. I know it may be scary, but it can do you some good. Mental illness can’t always be fought alone. Sometimes we need help from others to get through things in life. If you ever need someone to talk to, I’m free to hear you out and I would gladly answer anymore questions you need answered.
Dont know about advice but i know how you feel. When my dad first found out he didnt know how to react and frankly couldnt comprehend it. My mom could though. You arent alone though. I can understand it and accept it though i dont know you. I have felt that scarring situation.
I think you should talk about your problems with your dad. And if you know he loves you, he wouldn’t be ashamed of you. You can even talk about it with your boyfriend. Or us. You shouldn’t keep things to yourself when it comes to things like this. You’re not alone. ?