And noghtings changed. My great grandpa died today. I used to see him all the time as a kid and the first thing my husband said to me after I told him is “You better not use your bereavement, you need to save it for someone more important” like ummm it doesn’t work that way but no if I use it go to the funeral he’ll make my life hell. Just like that time he playfully choked me. Like haha you should have seen your face!!! FML I need a drink or 100 maybe
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More than a drink you need to leave him.
I hope someday you do. You’re your own person, not someone he’s in charge of. I’d say go to the funeral without him, pay your respects to your loved one and maybe talk to someone there about getting you some help. You’ve talked about wanting to leave him over the past couple years here, it’ll be better for you to be gone.
your husband needs divorce papers probably -_-
I feel like I recognize you but can’t quite put my finger on it. Good luck with the funeral stuffs though.
Sorry to hear about your great-grandfather.
I agree with freeroma and shatterediris. You need to ditch the guy. Just because he doesn’t have history or cares about a person doesn’t entitle him to prevent you from attending a funeral and grieving.
Why are you with someone who treats you that badly? What a waste of life.
‘Playfully’ choked you?