Ok so me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years and some change. I have not been the best boyfriend but I got myself together and made huge changes that I knew I needed to make. So last week I scroll through and see that she is in another relationship with another guy. I felt so much anger and sadness. It was a pain that I couldn’t describe but I wanted it to go away.
It hurts more because due to certain circumstances we were at her parents house and now its just me. She comes back and we cuddle and she says she loves me and I told her I’m going to fight for her. I know I led her on this path but it hurts when she leaves. It also hurts when its also Valentine’s Day season…….Idk. I have no one to talk to. I’m just lost.
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It’s a process. It will take time for that pain to subside, but it will be there deep within you. You just have to go through the process and stay strong. I’ve been there and it sucked so bad. Try and do things you enjoy. Find your true happiness. It’s within you. If it gets worse, there’s no shame of getting help.
Being single and not utterly involved with someone at Valentine’s Day is much greater. I’ve actually tried this Valentine’s to enjoy the company of a girl but oh my lord… It went really bad. Like no talking term-bad. That day is just a pain and reminds us, that we’re kinda meant to be unhappy. I hope your girl comes back to you and doesn’t make false promises. It hurts like crazy.